Hello, after popping in and out of this forum for the past month or so I couldn't resist joining to get your advice/thoughts on my situation please.

Me and my man were together for few months before he decided he wasn't ready for a relationship. Things didn't end nastily between us (although I was hurt as it was unexpected) but he wouldn't respond to any of my messages so I stopped trying. Just over a month ago I found this fabulous forum and Lanie's PW and BWD techniques so thought I would give it a try. A few weeks of doing it and after 4 weeks of NC I contacted him to let him know something - I had no expectations if him responding because I wasn't asking him anything. A few hours after texting him he responded so I believe that was a result of me doing PW on him....
I feel very calm about the situation, not at all anxious or desperate to hear from him. I have a strong sense/feeling that we are meant to be with each other but I am not waiting around for something to happen - I go to work, go out with friends and enjoy living my life. Admittedly I have times where I feel down and think too much about it all but soon turn the negative thoughts into positives. So my question is am I going in the right direction to manifest him back into my life?

Also, when I do PW, I clear my mind and relax but don't think I am properly meditating - will this stop the technique from working if I am not in the correct meditative state?

Any advice or thoughts you can give would be great as I just want to know I am on the right path!

Thank you!