Em wrote:

Marz wrote:

Em wrote:

Woah, my time machine worked and I'm now back in the 1800's!

I would expect you to reply to that with a non-humorous, remedial joke instead of actually answering that question. Of course she wouldn't, because the truth is, no one in their right minds would tell their daughter to go out and give their vagina away and to have fun with it.

No, but they would tell their daughter she could possibly practice safe sex, make sure she is in a safe environment, make sure she's comfortable with it if it's something she really wants? That is what I would tell my daughter. Because the cold hard truth is PEOPLE HAVE SEX. Young people have sex! They WANT to have sex and will do it anyway! So instead of trying to SCARE and SHAME them out of it, why not teach women to be safe? So, there's the answer to your question.

Yeah no one said any of this to Collee.
and no one shamed and scared anyone.  I told the girl to follow her heart. This victim bullshit needs to stop. It's completely understandable why so many young women are single and getting dogged out by men.
but again, keep competing with guys and trying to have sex the way they do and see where it gets you.

Last edited by Marz (11/16/2016 2:46 pm)

Aphrodite11 wrote:

Marz, women don't give their vagina away!!!!
When a woman has  sex she pleases herself, that's all. She isn't giving away her vagina. You  yourself consider women as people who give away their privates when they have sex instead of seeing someone who please themselves and fulfill their biological needs.
This is the problem us women have. We bash each other and disrespect each other. No wonder men do the  same.

Have you guys seen men? Most of them don't create an issue of such things hence they are relaxed and accepted because they accept each other. Women need to do the same.

And yes if men are allowed to reveal how many partners they slept with (and everyone is usually fine with this),  then everyone should  be fine with women doing the same.

Yeah, I don't agree with any of that. Sorry.
when I have sex with a man, I view it as me giving my most cherished parts of myself to him, and not just my vagina, my entire soul, my spirit, my everything, sex is not just a biological act for me, it's the closest way possible you could ever be with someone else.
You're entitled to your opinions tho.

Last edited by Marz (11/16/2016 2:50 pm)

I was telling people if they WANT to go out and have sex and it makes you happy, then do it. Be safe, have fun, don't let anybody make you feel guilty for it or ashamed because they choose not to. Do what you want with your own body. Don't live your life being worried about what men will think about you. You're praying to God we don't have daughters because of that? Seriously?

Funnily enough you can still do all of that and respect yourself and look after your body! I don't see how that is "disgusting". That was the whole reasoning behind my posts in a nutshell.

Y'all are going way too fast for me lol.  I type one thing and find like 1637 more comments have been posted....lol

Em wrote:

I was telling people if they WANT to go out and have sex and it makes you happy, then do it. Be safe, have fun, don't let anybody make you feel guilty for it or ashamed because they choose not to. Do what you want with your own body. Don't live your life being worried about what men will think about you. You're praying to God we don't have daughters because of that? Seriously?

Funnily enough you can still do all of that and respect yourself and look after your body! I don't see how that is "disgusting". That was the whole reasoning behind my posts in a nutshell.

Yes, I'm praying to God that some of you don't tell your daughters, go out and have fun and have sex with how ever many men you want to because women have the same needs men do and it's merely a biological act and that the right men in this world will respect promiscuous women.
Anyway, I have to go now - thanksgiving shopping and rethinking whether or not this group is the right place for me. Maybe I'll have to move on and make my own group.

Last edited by Marz (11/16/2016 3:03 pm)