And OP has learnt to detach so that will be fine.
If she isn't sure then she should avoid it altogether.
As they say, if you are confused, then don't do anything.

Also if a man cannot admit and respect and accept the fact that women have their needs then he can walk out of her door as she doesn't "need" a loser like that. She is better off without a judgmental bastard.
If at all she should do anything with a loser like that, then she should just use him for her pleasure and drop his pathetic, sorry, misogynist ass without him having any pleasure and satisfaction at all. Such men deserve it. And they deserve nothing better.

And really where do we "need" men? That too such men?
We can earn our money, feed ourselves, have anything we want on our own, we are complete all by ourselves. But for a straight woman, sex is the only place where she needs men.

 

The Coach Carr comment was totally uncalled for...regardless of who u were referring to though.

Aphrodite11 wrote:

And OP has learnt to detach so that will be fine.
If she isn't sure then she should avoid it altogether.
As they say, if you are confused, then don't do anything.

Also if a man cannot admit and respect and accept the fact that women have their needs then he can walk out of her door as she doesn't "need" a loser like that. She is better off without a judgmental bastard.
If at all she should do anything with a loser like that, then she should just use him for her pleasure and drop his pathetic, sorry, misogynist ass without him having any pleasure and satisfaction at all. Such men deserve it. And they deserve nothing better.

And really where do we "need" men? That too such men?
We can earn our money, feed ourselves, have anything we want on our own, we are complete all by ourselves. But for a straight woman, sex is the only place where she needs men.

 

But in the meantime...until she for sure knows how to detach...then what?  If she gets attached quickly...having sex with someone she isn't in a relationship with may not be the best thing for her.  She could get hurt.  That's my concern.  I have no judgement towards whatever she does...i just don't want her to do something that will get her heartbroken in the end.  But again...whatever she feels is best...i hope she knows what she is doing.

I agree with that part Shawneegirl1980. If she is unsure, she shouldn't do it. The best  thing to  do when confused is to do  nothing.