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Em · 11/16/2016 2:18 pm

Marz wrote:
Shawneegirl1980 wrote:
Marz...pleeeease don't do it. Don't go there with the slinging insults with her.
I'm becoming fed up. Calling me "disgusting" was unwarranted. She needs to not do it.

It was a disgusting and appalling comment to make that you hope to God some of us don't have any daughters because what? We make different choices to you? Yes, I do happen to find that disgusting.

Em · 11/16/2016 2:20 pm

Marz wrote:
Em wrote:
So now not having a problem with casual sex so long as it makes you happy also makes you an unfit mother. Terrific!
Wrong again. You have a hard time understanding things or nah?

Then maybe you need to word things better. Please reiterate what you meant by that statement?

Shawneegirl1980 · 11/16/2016 2:20 pm

Marz wrote:
Shawneegirl1980 wrote:
Marz...pleeeease don't do it. Don't go there with the slinging insults with her.
I'm becoming fed up. Calling me "disgusting" was unwarranted. If people come at my head, feelings will be hurt. I've been disrespected and accused of enough bullshit in this discussion as is.

No she doesn't...however her calling u disgusting doesn't define you. Those of us who know where you are coming from know that aren't disgusting...

Marz · 11/16/2016 2:21 pm

Em wrote:
Marz wrote:
Em wrote:

Yes, you are disgusting for stating such a thing.
Name calling now? Okay, gloves off. And you're disgusting for opening your legs for the entire world. Maybe if you'd stop that you wouldn't be crying all over the forum talking about how many times you e given up. Go visit a free clinic, hun.
Pathetic. I have slept with 3 men. Two I was in long term relationships with. So I don't really see how my other one-off casual experience is opening my legs to the "entire world". I absolutely see nothing wrong with women who partake in casual sex and I think trying to shame those women for making that choice with their own body (which you have done since the start of this thread) is the very opposite of trying to empower others.

I shamed you for being disrespectful. And the fact that you're explaining yourself to me says you're probably not telling the truth. Mmkay?
Now I've been called disgusting and pathetic by you, you done or do I need to go in some more?

Em · 11/16/2016 2:23 pm

Also, I gave up because I came to the conclusion my ex was severely psychologically abusive to me during our relationship and I didn't want to give him any more energy.

Nothing to do with me "opening my legs to the entire world", which I don't do anyway. Nor should I be shamed for it even if I did.

Shawneegirl1980 · 11/16/2016 2:23 pm

Marz wrote:
Em wrote:
Marz wrote:

Name calling now? Okay, gloves off. And you're disgusting for opening your legs for the entire world. Maybe if you'd stop that you wouldn't be crying all over the forum talking about how many times you e given up. Go visit a free clinic, hun.
Pathetic. I have slept with 3 men. Two I was in long term relationships with. So I don't really see how my other one-off casual experience is opening my legs to the "entire world". I absolutely see nothing wrong with women who partake in casual sex and I think trying to shame those women for making that choice with their own body (which you have done since the start of this thread) is the very opposite of trying to empower others.
I shamed you for being disrespectful. And the fact that you're explaining yourself to me says you're probably not telling the truth. Mmkay?
Now I've been called disgusting and pathetic by you, you done or do I need to go in some more?

Marz noooooooo....don't do it!

Em · 11/16/2016 2:24 pm

Marz wrote:
Em wrote:
Marz wrote:

Name calling now? Okay, gloves off. And you're disgusting for opening your legs for the entire world. Maybe if you'd stop that you wouldn't be crying all over the forum talking about how many times you e given up. Go visit a free clinic, hun.
Pathetic. I have slept with 3 men. Two I was in long term relationships with. So I don't really see how my other one-off casual experience is opening my legs to the "entire world". I absolutely see nothing wrong with women who partake in casual sex and I think trying to shame those women for making that choice with their own body (which you have done since the start of this thread) is the very opposite of trying to empower others.
I shamed you for being disrespectful. And the fact that you're explaining yourself to me says you're probably not telling the truth. Mmkay?
Now I've been called disgusting and pathetic by you, you done or do I need to go in some more?

Yep, sorry to disappoint but that's the truth. Sorry you happen to be so presumptuous. Mmkay?

Shawneegirl1980 · 11/16/2016 2:27 pm

Em wrote:
Marz wrote:
Em wrote:

Pathetic. I have slept with 3 men. Two I was in long term relationships with. So I don't really see how my other one-off casual experience is opening my legs to the "entire world". I absolutely see nothing wrong with women who partake in casual sex and I think trying to shame those women for making that choice with their own body (which you have done since the start of this thread) is the very opposite of trying to empower others.
I shamed you for being disrespectful. And the fact that you're explaining yourself to me says you're probably not telling the truth. Mmkay?
Now I've been called disgusting and pathetic by you, you done or do I need to go in some more?
Yep, sorry to disappoint but that's the truth. Sorry you happen to be so presumptuous. Mmkay?

Em...she does kinda have a point...u went into how many men u slept with and why...and for what? If u aren't out here opening your legs to every one..why does anything she says offend you? If what u say is true...then why argue about it with someone u wouldn't know if they passed u on the street?!

Em · 11/16/2016 2:30 pm

Shawneegirl1980 wrote:
Em wrote:
Marz wrote:
I shamed you for being disrespectful. And the fact that you're explaining yourself to me says you're probably not telling the truth. Mmkay?
Now I've been called disgusting and pathetic by you, you done or do I need to go in some more?
Yep, sorry to disappoint but that's the truth. Sorry you happen to be so presumptuous. Mmkay?
Em...she does kinda have a point...u went into how many men u slept with and why...and for what? If u aren't out here opening your legs to every one..why does anything she says offend you? If what u say is true...then why argue about it with someone u wouldn't know if they passed u on the street?!

Because women are being shamed for CHOOSING WHAT THE HELL THEY WANT TO DO WITH THEIR OWN BODIES IN A FORUM BASED SOLELY AROUND EMPOWERING WOMEN.

I have no problem with talking about how many (or how few) men I have slept with. And why? Because I was just clearing up her presumption that I must have slept with the entire world and have some kind of disease because I fully support women who choose to do whatever they like with their bodies.

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Marz · 11/16/2016 2:32 pm

Em wrote:
Marz wrote:
Em wrote:
So now not having a problem with casual sex so long as it makes you happy also makes you an unfit mother. Terrific!
Wrong again. You have a hard time understanding things or nah?
Then maybe you need to word things better. Please reiterate what you meant by that statement?

It's not a matter of me wording things better as much is you not being as intelligent as I am. That's not an insult, that's just the truth. As a one time courtesy, I will explain to you what I meant, although I've already done it in the discussion.
For the women that advocate free sex with whomever and whenever, what will they tell their daughters when they ask them about sex? Will they get the same spread your legs and have fun mentality? If so, what will their fathers have to say about that? Oh never mind, they aren't real men because they don't cherish promiscuous women 😂😂😂
Welp.