BuyMeTiffany's wrote:

It's not working at all. I have been doing it since October 11th, 2016, don't get me wrong..I want it to work but it just doesn't. This is tough to accept. My boyfriend is overseas and has been too busy to contact me. Nothing has happened. I'm more upset than anything that he could be so horrible. I guess I just needed to vent. Thanks for reading everyone. Have a good night. 

 
I'm sorry you feel that way but I think you're expecting way too much in so little of time and that's where you're going wrong! 1- is detachment after you do the technique 2- is feeling it real and if you were doing that then you would be already believing you have the relationship you desire! Sweetie please stop counting the days hours and minutes not "hearing" from him instead spend them working on yourself being ok not "hearing" from him! Please believe me and so many other women and men on this forum IT WORKS NOT JUST SOME OF THE TIME EVERYTIME!!! Once you realize that and let it go I swear I know for a fact you will soon be "hearing" from him and "feeling" his energy while you're doing the technique it's almost going to freak you out I know at first it did for me! Now I feel his energy all the time and I love it because I know when he's thinking of me and if you keep it up you will too with your soon to be hubby!! Please keep it up and don't lose faith my dear!!!💞

The methods absolutely work. When I first started, I was curious to prove to myself that they do work too. My suggestion would be to increase your trust by picking another target that you see on a daily basis. You don't have to go and do the method everyday but do enough to see it work for yourself. You don't have to do full meditations. 5-10 minutes is plenty. And you see the most pronounced effects with BWD. Have fun with it. Take the methods out for a spin and really see what they can do. You will gain confidence in seeing how men react.

And as you gain trust, it'll be more enjoyable and detached calling out to your boyfriend because you'll know that it works.

And as for the holidays, know that your boyfriend is with you energetically. You can access him and talk to him anytime and he is there. If I have a momentary lapse, all I do is bring him in front of me for a few seconds in my mind, and hear him say "I'm always with you and I love you". That gives me the reassurance and relief I need to keep going with my day without the insecurity. Some days I don't do it at all, and other days maybe a dozen or more times if I need to be soothed.

Last edited by DC (12/12/2016 5:37 pm)

Sure. Collie and some others have been using it for that. As long as you can equate the two and tell yourself it works with your boyfriend because it works with your goal, you're set. I just suggested another man because it's easier to get your mind wrapped around similar things. But, if another goal works for you, give it a go 😀

The books are concise and well written with a good twist of humour. I'm sure you'll enjoy them when you read them.