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I got pretty emotional today when I was doing PW. I've had a hard few days as this man tried to sexually assault me the other night and I think when I was trying to get away he grabbed my wallet (or it fell out of my bag). Needless to say I've sort of been an emotional rollercoaster the last few days and I sent a text to my POI about what happened (it didn't fully explain it but told him the gist) and he hasn't responded. I knew I probably shouldn't have reached out to him but last week he actually texted me a lot for a couple of days and was pretty open and vulnerable (talking about his career). We're not dating at this point, we're technically friends but have had a few intense hookups. There's a lot of details I'm leaving out but overall I was upset today about him not responding and his hot and cold ways. When I was doing PW I ended up crying hysterically while I thought of a lot of the things I want to say. I generally stay more positive and empowered when I'm doing PW but today I sort of just needed to cry I think. I wanted to ask is it bad to do this during PW? Does it sort of defeat the purpose?
Also this is random but does anyone ever combine PW and How To Make Him Burn With Desire? I've ended up doing that a few times kind of organically. Is that a bad idea.
Thanks!
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I'm really sorry for what you're experiencing but don't rely on him to make you feel better. You can shift your thoughts on your own to a better place. If you think this is interfering with PW, it will, because you'll be sending negative energy out. Get yourself to a better feeling place first.
And yes, you can follow BWD with PW or vice versa.
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Thanks DC. You're very kind. I wasn't intentionally looking to him to make me feel better but I see on some level I was doing that. Do you think when we do that during PW it confuses the situation more? Like when a man is already having issues with committing to you does getting emotionally needy or sad in a PW just push them away or confuse them more? Just wondering your thoughts on that.
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My personal thought would be that real life and energetically can be viewed identically. If you are in a relationship with someone (committed or not), if you are happy and enjoying life, you draw that person to you. If you are sad and upset, they want the distance to feel better. I wouldn't worry about one day of "bad" PW, just like the other person doesn't run like hell in real life if you're having a bad day. But, consistently feeling down in your sessions would definitely not work in your favour. Be easy on yourself. One bad session doesn't undo what you've done so far. But, going forward, spend a little bit of your time picking yourself up and feeling good before getting into a session.
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jessieroro wrote:
I got pretty emotional today when I was doing PW. I've had a hard few days as this man tried to sexually assault me the other night and I think when I was trying to get away he grabbed my wallet (or it fell out of my bag). Needless to say I've sort of been an emotional rollercoaster the last few days and I sent a text to my POI about what happened (it didn't fully explain it but told him the gist) and he hasn't responded. I knew I probably shouldn't have reached out to him but last week he actually texted me a lot for a couple of days and was pretty open and vulnerable (talking about his career). We're not dating at this point, we're technically friends but have had a few intense hookups. There's a lot of details I'm leaving out but overall I was upset today about him not responding and his hot and cold ways. When I was doing PW I ended up crying hysterically while I thought of a lot of the things I want to say. I generally stay more positive and empowered when I'm doing PW but today I sort of just needed to cry I think. I wanted to ask is it bad to do this during PW? Does it sort of defeat the purpose?
Also this is random but does anyone ever combine PW and How To Make Him Burn With Desire? I've ended up doing that a few times kind of organically. Is that a bad idea.
Thanks!
Actually emotions, when they are intense, are good to send. Whether it is love, passion or anger they feel it even stronger when you are really feeling it. Some of the best PW sessions I've ever had I visualized myself wringing their neck -- literally!
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Lanie this just answered a question I've had. I didn't know if I should pw when I'm feeling hurt, or just pissed. Now I know! Thanks
Lanie Stevens wrote:
jessieroro wrote:
I got pretty emotional today when I was doing PW. I've had a hard few days as this man tried to sexually assault me the other night and I think when I was trying to get away he grabbed my wallet (or it fell out of my bag). Needless to say I've sort of been an emotional rollercoaster the last few days and I sent a text to my POI about what happened (it didn't fully explain it but told him the gist) and he hasn't responded. I knew I probably shouldn't have reached out to him but last week he actually texted me a lot for a couple of days and was pretty open and vulnerable (talking about his career). We're not dating at this point, we're technically friends but have had a few intense hookups. There's a lot of details I'm leaving out but overall I was upset today about him not responding and his hot and cold ways. When I was doing PW I ended up crying hysterically while I thought of a lot of the things I want to say. I generally stay more positive and empowered when I'm doing PW but today I sort of just needed to cry I think. I wanted to ask is it bad to do this during PW? Does it sort of defeat the purpose?
Also this is random but does anyone ever combine PW and How To Make Him Burn With Desire? I've ended up doing that a few times kind of organically. Is that a bad idea.
Thanks!Actually emotions, when they are intense, are good to send. Whether it is love, passion or anger they feel it even stronger when you are really feeling it. Some of the best PW sessions I've ever had I visualized myself wringing their neck -- literally!
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I combine mine everytime. hope it's ok. Lol
jessieroro wrote:
I got pretty emotional today when I was doing PW. I've had a hard few days as this man tried to sexually assault me the other night and I think when I was trying to get away he grabbed my wallet (or it fell out of my bag). Needless to say I've sort of been an emotional rollercoaster the last few days and I sent a text to my POI about what happened (it didn't fully explain it but told him the gist) and he hasn't responded. I knew I probably shouldn't have reached out to him but last week he actually texted me a lot for a couple of days and was pretty open and vulnerable (talking about his career). We're not dating at this point, we're technically friends but have had a few intense hookups. There's a lot of details I'm leaving out but overall I was upset today about him not responding and his hot and cold ways. When I was doing PW I ended up crying hysterically while I thought of a lot of the things I want to say. I generally stay more positive and empowered when I'm doing PW but today I sort of just needed to cry I think. I wanted to ask is it bad to do this during PW? Does it sort of defeat the purpose?
Also this is random but does anyone ever combine PW and How To Make Him Burn With Desire? I've ended up doing that a few times kind of organically. Is that a bad idea.
Thanks!
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Oh really Lanie? That's interesting to hear. I have found that some of my PW sessions I have sadness or rage and I often then focus more on the love after that.
So you feel the anger or sadness doesn't necessarily push them away?
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