1 2 Jump to
- hellokitty
- Master Contributor
Offline - Registered: 8/17/2016
- Posts: 56
After FOUR months of PW and BWD I had to reach out
I've been doing PW and BWD since August. I had faith in the process, and truly believed that it would work.
After seeing his profile on Tinder, I was happy to see that he was single. I didn't swipe Right; but I texted him.
He told me that he was not interested. When I texted him, he initially didn't recognize me because he deleted my phone number.
Now, I'm relieved to have some type of closure, and to know that I don't have to spend all those minutes trying to manifest someone who expressed disinterest in me. I am sad, because I was very sure that he would have been happy that I reached out. I was sure that he was going to tell me that he missed me. I was certain without a shadow of a doubt that he would have asked to see me again. I'm too tired to cry, but if I could, I would.
Last edited by hellokitty (12/21/2016 9:27 pm)
- HH
- Master Contributor
Offline
- Registered: 11/30/2016
- Posts: 97
Re: After FOUR months of PW and BWD I had to reach out
I am really sorry hello kitty. I am about to give up myself... it's been four months of PW with no signs, he didn't unblock me, and he's moving closer with his current gf.
your last sentence about crying made me tear... i am sorry you are going through this and sending you hugs.
- mrstkg
- Manifesting Genius
Offline
- Registered: 11/21/2016
- Posts: 152
Re: After FOUR months of PW and BWD I had to reach out
What's the background story?ex? Or a date?
hellokitty wrote:
I've been doing PW and BWD since August. I had faith in the process, and truly believed that it would work.
After seeing his profile on Tinder, I was happy to see that he was single. I didn't swipe Right; but I texted him.
He told me that he was not interested. When I texted him, he initially didn't recognize me because he deleted my phone number.
Now, I'm relieved to have some type of closure, and to know that I don't have to spend all those minutes trying to manifest someone who expressed disinterest in me. I am sad, because I was very sure that he would have been happy that I reached out. I was sure that he was going to tell me that he missed me. I was certain without a shadow of a doubt that he would have asked to see me again. I'm too tired to cry, but if I could, I would.
- AnnanWater
- Manifesting Genius
Offline
- Registered: 6/10/2016
- Posts: 215
Re: After FOUR months of PW and BWD I had to reach out
If you know he is the one for you, just keep going without reaching out again. I've heard nothing for three months, but keep going anyways. If I meet someone better, that will be when I stop.
"I am not throwing away my shot!" - Lin Manuel Miranda
- hellokitty
- Master Contributor
Offline
- Registered: 8/17/2016
- Posts: 56
Re: After FOUR months of PW and BWD I had to reach out
I am really sorry hello kitty. I am about to give up myself... it's been four months of PW with no signs, he didn't unblock me, and he's moving closer with his current gf.
your last sentence about crying made me tear... i am sorry you are going through this and sending you hugs.
You're sweet. Thank you for your response. I hope you have a better go at it than I did.
- •
Thread Starter- hellokitty
- Master Contributor
Offline
- Registered: 8/17/2016
- Posts: 56
Re: After FOUR months of PW and BWD I had to reach out
What's the background story?ex? Or a date?
I've been doing PW and BWD since August. I had faith in the process, and truly believed that it would work.
After seeing his profile on Tinder, I was happy to see that he was single. I didn't swipe Right; but I texted him.
He told me that he was not interested. When I texted him, he initially didn't recognize me because he deleted my phone number.
Now, I'm relieved to have some type of closure, and to know that I don't have to spend all those minutes trying to manifest someone who expressed disinterest in me. I am sad, because I was very sure that he would have been happy that I reached out. I was sure that he was going to tell me that he missed me. I was certain without a shadow of a doubt that he would have asked to see me again. I'm too tired to cry, but if I could, I would.
No relationship. We went on 3 great dates. They were romantic and he set the baseline for any other date I'd go on in the future. He stopped responding to me about 5 months ago then I started pw and bwd on him.
- •
Thread Starter- hellokitty
- Master Contributor
Offline
- Registered: 8/17/2016
- Posts: 56
Re: After FOUR months of PW and BWD I had to reach out
If you know he is the one for you, just keep going without reaching out again. I've heard nothing for three months, but keep going anyways. If I meet someone better, that will be when I stop.
His disinterest makes me believe that he's not the one. I sort of wished that he didn't even text me back.
- •
Thread Starter- Oasiscalm
- Manifesting Genius
Offline
- Registered: 1/27/2016
- Posts: 901
Re: After FOUR months of PW and BWD I had to reach out
What's the background story?ex? Or a date?
I've been doing PW and BWD since August. I had faith in the process, and truly believed that it would work.
After seeing his profile on Tinder, I was happy to see that he was single. I didn't swipe Right; but I texted him.
He told me that he was not interested. When I texted him, he initially didn't recognize me because he deleted my phone number.
Now, I'm relieved to have some type of closure, and to know that I don't have to spend all those minutes trying to manifest someone who expressed disinterest in me. I am sad, because I was very sure that he would have been happy that I reached out. I was sure that he was going to tell me that he missed me. I was certain without a shadow of a doubt that he would have asked to see me again. I'm too tired to cry, but if I could, I would.
We don't need the back story. We are forward looking and moving her. No need to recount the past unwanted story and keeping it alive.
- Oasiscalm
- Manifesting Genius
Offline
- Registered: 1/27/2016
- Posts: 901
Re: After FOUR months of PW and BWD I had to reach out
If you know he is the one for you, just keep going without reaching out again. I've heard nothing for three months, but keep going anyways. If I meet someone better, that will be when I stop.
His disinterest makes me believe that he's not the one. I sort of wished that he didn't even text me back.
Whether you choose to give up or not is your choice.
But from a LOA point of view there is no room for trying to make things happen. Trying to mould the situation or force it to happen very rarely works out the way you want.
However everything is always working in your favour as along as you align yourself and focus on what you want.
Whatever you choose to do, be more trusting in the universe. Bring the focus back to you and fulfilling yourself.
- mrstkg
- Manifesting Genius
Offline
- Registered: 11/21/2016
- Posts: 152
Re: After FOUR months of PW and BWD I had to reach out
I was curious for a personal reason.made me think about something.
What's the background story?ex? Or a date?
I've been doing PW and BWD since August. I had faith in the process, and truly believed that it would work.
After seeing his profile on Tinder, I was happy to see that he was single. I didn't swipe Right; but I texted him.
He told me that he was not interested. When I texted him, he initially didn't recognize me because he deleted my phone number.
Now, I'm relieved to have some type of closure, and to know that I don't have to spend all those minutes trying to manifest someone who expressed disinterest in me. I am sad, because I was very sure that he would have been happy that I reached out. I was sure that he was going to tell me that he missed me. I was certain without a shadow of a doubt that he would have asked to see me again. I'm too tired to cry, but if I could, I would.
We don't need the back story. We are forward looking and moving her. No need to recount the past unwanted story and keeping it alive.
1 2 Jump to
All guests are welcome but be sure to "REGISTER" so you can post your comments.