HH wrote:

wow good post, good questions... did you do the technique every day for a year?  
I am curious to know if anyone had a similar experience or the answers.  

I am in a situation where Ive been doing it for months with not even one sign, no hello, not even unblocking from fb.  So I can understand after a year how it can get too much... and how you feel the energy is wasted.  I was going to stop after new years... but i don't want to lose my faith.  

Do you believe he is the one for you?  A lot of it has to do with faith..

 

Remember in Lanie's PW book she said that she knew her man could not get her off his mind and she never doubted it because she had faith. Then when he came back he told her he missed her every day! She never lost faith because she said she just knew. Also, remember she said she didn't use it every day and would sometimes do it every few days but because thoughts are "like a cloud" he still got the messages. 

I re-read both PW and BWD today and it's helped boost my positivity - I would def recommend re-reading them if you guys need some motivation. Also, keep in mind everyone's success stories and remember that thoughts are things and they do manifest and happen and reach the people you love - no matter what!

Blue wrote:

Remember in Lanie's PW book she said that she knew her man could not get her off his mind and she never doubted it because she had faith. Then when he came back he told her he missed her every day! She never lost faith because she said she just knew. Also, remember she said she didn't use it every day and would sometimes do it every few days but because thoughts are "like a cloud" he still got the messages. 

I re-read both PW and BWD today and it's helped boost my positivity - I would def recommend re-reading them if you guys need some motivation. Also, keep in mind everyone's success stories and remember that thoughts are things and they do manifest and happen and reach the people you love - no matter what!

This is lovely advice💛. Though I've decided to let my person go , this could be helpful with my next guy lol. You and HH are definitely right about keeping faith . Maybe I wasn't keeping it constant enough .

I have been doing the technique for 2.5 months solid. I have my days where I do it and then skip a day or so. While I have been able to manifest him back and us spending time together, he only ends up sticking around for a day or two and then disappears again. I saw him last night where he proceeded to tell me, after all this time post-break up, he still doesn't want to be in a relationship and that he sees himself being single all of next year as well. I don't have the desire or the patience to do what Lanie did for a whole year. I guess after a while, you get tired of trying and not getting the results you want. Sometimes, some things are just not meant to be. 

Hi lovelies,

I just want to clarify that Lanie went out and enjoyed her life throughout that entire time. Even though she used the technique from time to time on her man she didnt make him her primary focus. I think a lot of us get frustrated when the guy pulls back but part of the reason is because they can sense that we are "pushing" them towards a relationship.

What i have learnt is that when i get frustrated its because im giving too much of my energy to the outcome i desire, this is draining esp. when the guy becomes distant. When you sense the frustration and energy drain creeping in, this is a sign to shift your focus back to you. Have fun with your friends, do something fun that raises your vibe.

It's entirely up to you if you want to continue using the techniques on him or move on, but its better to make that decision from a place of gratitude, peace and thanks for what the experience gave you versus frustration or anger at his indifference.