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Hi gals, my first q on this board! Just got all of Lanie's stuff 12 days ago and I mostly feel good though not yet 100%! I'm familiar with Abe's teachings as well. Really love all the support from you lovely ladies here..
I mostly do PW on the guy I'm seeing (not an ex). My q is as above. I have tried the stepping into his body a few times..how do I know I did it successfully and not just projecting my own thoughts? Once, I felt I was him and while looking at me, I felt he thought HE wasn't good enough for me..and other times it's like he's totally focusing on my boobs lol
Do you feel anything when you kinda 'step in'? I love doing PW btw...
I also tend to do PW much more than RS or BWD at the moment as I want the emotional connection to strengthen first...
Thanks so much!
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Minami wrote:
Hi gals, my first q on this board! Just got all of Lanie's stuff 12 days ago and I mostly feel good though not yet 100%! I'm familiar with Abe's teachings as well. Really love all the support from you lovely ladies here..
I mostly do PW on the guy I'm seeing (not an ex). My q is as above. I have tried the stepping into his body a few times..how do I know I did it successfully and not just projecting my own thoughts? Once, I felt I was him and while looking at me, I felt he thought HE wasn't good enough for me..and other times it's like he's totally focusing on my boobs lol
Do you feel anything when you kinda 'step in'? I love doing PW btw...
I also tend to do PW much more than RS or BWD at the moment as I want the emotional connection to strengthen first...
Thanks so much!
Sweetie read the book T.I.M.E it would help a lot!
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Minami wrote:
Hi gals, my first q on this board! Just got all of Lanie's stuff 12 days ago and I mostly feel good though not yet 100%! I'm familiar with Abe's teachings as well. Really love all the support from you lovely ladies here..
I mostly do PW on the guy I'm seeing (not an ex). My q is as above. I have tried the stepping into his body a few times..how do I know I did it successfully and not just projecting my own thoughts? Once, I felt I was him and while looking at me, I felt he thought HE wasn't good enough for me..and other times it's like he's totally focusing on my boobs lol
Do you feel anything when you kinda 'step in'? I love doing PW btw...
I also tend to do PW much more than RS or BWD at the moment as I want the emotional connection to strengthen first...
Thanks so much!
Also those negative thoughts that come up those are your negative insecure thoughts that come up not necessarily his!
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Mcleanie77 wrote:
Minami wrote:
Hi gals, my first q on this board! Just got all of Lanie's stuff 12 days ago and I mostly feel good though not yet 100%! I'm familiar with Abe's teachings as well. Really love all the support from you lovely ladies here..
I mostly do PW on the guy I'm seeing (not an ex). My q is as above. I have tried the stepping into his body a few times..how do I know I did it successfully and not just projecting my own thoughts? Once, I felt I was him and while looking at me, I felt he thought HE wasn't good enough for me..and other times it's like he's totally focusing on my boobs lol
Do you feel anything when you kinda 'step in'? I love doing PW btw...
I also tend to do PW much more than RS or BWD at the moment as I want the emotional connection to strengthen first...
Thanks so much!
Sweetie read the book T.I.M.E it would help a lot!
Thanks dear!
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You basically see yourself through his eyes in first person, looking at you and thinking/doing/saying what you would want him to.
Thanks Blue! That's what I try to do? Just curious if there's any feeling when you step in ..there was once after I stepped in I felt a different kind of energy that was kinda freaky but other times nothing too significant...
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Minami wrote:
Blue wrote:
You basically see yourself through his eyes in first person, looking at you and thinking/doing/saying what you would want him to.
Thanks Blue! That's what I try to do? Just curious if there's any feeling when you step in ..there was once after I stepped in I felt a different kind of energy that was kinda freaky but other times nothing too significant...
I've only felt feelings/energy once when I stepped in/imagined myself as him - they were loving. But you can also generate those feelings into his subconscious as well.
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Mcleanie77 wrote:
Minami wrote:
Hi gals, my first q on this board! Just got all of Lanie's stuff 12 days ago and I mostly feel good though not yet 100%! I'm familiar with Abe's teachings as well. Really love all the support from you lovely ladies here..
I mostly do PW on the guy I'm seeing (not an ex). My q is as above. I have tried the stepping into his body a few times..how do I know I did it successfully and not just projecting my own thoughts? Once, I felt I was him and while looking at me, I felt he thought HE wasn't good enough for me..and other times it's like he's totally focusing on my boobs lol
Do you feel anything when you kinda 'step in'? I love doing PW btw...
I also tend to do PW much more than RS or BWD at the moment as I want the emotional connection to strengthen first...
Thanks so much!I'm really not sure lol - How do we even differentiate?
I do know that the time I felt a very diff energy from my own when I stepped in, the next morning I could feel him fantasizing about me very vividly.
Usually when I decide to do the stepping in I intend to do a loving one but once I step in...it turns sexual..does it mean I managed to really step in? Lol
I think it's rather fun n very interesting btw..
Also those negative thoughts that come up those are your negative insecure thoughts that come up not necessarily his!
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Minami wrote:
Blue wrote:
You basically see yourself through his eyes in first person, looking at you and thinking/doing/saying what you would want him to.
Thanks Blue! That's what I try to do? Just curious if there's any feeling when you step in ..there was once after I stepped in I felt a different kind of energy that was kinda freaky but other times nothing too significant...
I've only felt feelings/energy once when I stepped in/imagined myself as him - they were loving. But you can also generate those feelings into his subconscious as well.
Thanks for sharing!! Usually it starts loving then somehow turns sexual and I don't know if it's me or his subconscious responding lol
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Minami wrote:
Mcleanie77 wrote:
Minami wrote:
Hi gals, my first q on this board! Just got all of Lanie's stuff 12 days ago and I mostly feel good though not yet 100%! I'm familiar with Abe's teachings as well. Really love all the support from you lovely ladies here..
I mostly do PW on the guy I'm seeing (not an ex). My q is as above. I have tried the stepping into his body a few times..how do I know I did it successfully and not just projecting my own thoughts? Once, I felt I was him and while looking at me, I felt he thought HE wasn't good enough for me..and other times it's like he's totally focusing on my boobs lol
Do you feel anything when you kinda 'step in'? I love doing PW btw...
I also tend to do PW much more than RS or BWD at the moment as I want the emotional connection to strengthen first...
Thanks so much!
Sweetie read the book T.I.M.E it would help a lot!Thanks dear!
Anytime sweetie!!