First, you need to go no contact because it's obvious that being around him and him telling you over and over "You're just a friend." is hindering your progress. You need to also stop having any sexual relationship with him until he makes it clear he wants a committed, loyal, romantic relationship with you.

You need to read PW and BWD if you haven't, even buy PP.
Lanie has given us all the techniques and the power to get any man we want as long as we have faith and patience, there are also many resources on this forum that can help you out as well. 

Sur wrote:

I have few questions, that kill me everyday.

1. My specific person always made me clear that I am just a friend no matter what.

2. Still I've put efforts so that I could be with him, and he acdepting my efforts still not seeing me as a partner or something.

3. I've met his family too, but only as a friend and then I got to know they have more options for him and he is involved talking to other girls.

4. Even After knowing all this, I still don't want to loose hope, i want to be with him Like forever. And main thing we were having sexual relations only. (Mostly)

5. And now
Like he is really madly close with her. And he is serious about her. He just can't stop thinking about the other one.
I really don't know what should I do.
No matter how hard I am trying I am just not able to make that connection, and other girls are getting closer.
But the problem is that guy is so rigid, even been friends from more than a year, he never called me.
We never talk in person, just normal texts.
There are so many problems but my love or my feelings for him are strongest.

He just doesn't cares, what all sorts of efforts I ak taking.
Would I'll be able to manifest him ever?
Will he ever notice me?
Will he ever call?
Please help me.

I feel dead inside now.

 
Hello Sur!!!

Do what Blue said.  I think that you may be making yourself too easily available to him and he is taking you for

granted.  Don't chase him, fawn over him, call him, text him, worry about him, none of that.  From now on, act like

you don't really care so much, get busy with other interests, and read those books - do the meditations.  Make sure

that everything about you is on point when you go out anywhere in case you run into him - your hair, nails, clothes,

shoes, everything.  Keep it tight.  You can get him Girl but you must do ALL of Lanie's teachings and then some. 

You can get the Kindle app for your desktop, laptop, iPhone, whatever.  Get all three books ASAP!!!

This stuff works!!!

Blue wrote:

First, you need to go no contact because it's obvious that being around him and him telling you over and over "You're just a friend." is hindering your progress. You need to also stop having any sexual relationship with him until he makes it clear he wants a committed, loyal, romantic relationship with you.

You need to read PW and BWD if you haven't, even buy PP.
Lanie has given us all the techniques and the power to get any man we want as long as we have faith and patience, there are also many resources on this forum that can help you out as well. 

Why does she need to go no contact. From what she has written they are friends, there has been no break up or dispute.

Take a step back and make yourself scarce. Don't underestimate the power of being a guy's "friend". But don't sit there pining over him wishing for more.

I'm assuming as you have posted on this forum, you have already bought at least one of the books or meditations. Do the techniques and start visualising you both as a couple. Start affirming and believing he is yours.

Its a mental game, it's starts with you. Quit focusing on his family and friends- those are all outside conditions which can change in a heartbeat.

She doesn't need to, I only recommended it because him repeating "we're only friends" or such could eventually embed into her subconscious and she will take that as fact and it could possibly delay her manifestation. Of course, Sur, you can always be friends with him - there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. However if you want to remain friends then please don't give up your goodies until he gives up his status to you.

Keep us updated!

Definitely buy the books. If you don't have a kindle you can always download the kindle app on your computer and buy the books through amazon to send to the kindle on your desktop. xo

The app is here, just click "download for pc/mac" at the top.

Last edited by Blue (1/24/2017 2:17 am)

Indigo, you should definitely post your success story I think it will help a lot of ladies here xo