Joshbemine wrote:

Are we suppose to visualise our surroundings as well? I have a hard time just seeing him in my PW/BWD.
You all seem to talk about where things take place. I'm I doing it wrong? Should I be visualising the place as well?

No, you don't have to. You can be in a white room or wherever, as long as your surroundings are just the two of you. Meaning don't visualise yourself in an amusement park with screaming children, visualise yourself in a cottage or empty flower field.