Hi Soul,
I am quoting another lovely member DC here:

I'm pretty sure this was posted a few times but I'll repeat it as I love the analogy. When you are doing RS/RI, it's like filling up a bucket with drops of water. Sooner or later the bucket has to fill and overflow. There's no other way. For some, this may mean weeks, for others, it might be months but sooner or later he'll give in. Persistence is key. You can already see it working. Know that it is. Don't worry about the actual situation and give your attention to what you want.  You've done so well. Keep going!  Your bucket is filling

Last edited by emmiline (1/25/2017 2:03 am)

Indigo wrote:

Indigo wrote:

Soul wrote:

Well, he was being sexual in the skype

I'm sure he was.  Anyway, I need more details, your short responses aren't helping me tell you what you need to be
doing or NOT doing.  Sexual skyping is something that you should NOT be doing because he's probably just using
you for thrills.  Have you read Lanie's Pussy Power?  If you really want him you need to do that because what you
are doing is not going to work.  You are sabotaging your meditation efforts by doing things you shouldn't be doing.
 

Soul - Girl, I am an old woman.  I've been there and done that.  I used to sleep with men right away or sleep
with them trying to get them or keep them or make them leave another woman.  It never worked.  Men just
used me for easy sex but they never made a commitment to me.  My target now is someone I've been friends
with for something like twenty years.  We have never slept together and until I know that we are going to be
in a serious relationship I am NOT going to sleep with him, no matter how much I desire him, miss him, need
him, dream of him or what. 

If I can go for twenty years without sleeping with this dude, you young ladies can go a few months without
doing anything sexual with yours.  Stop chasing him, calling him, stalking him, sexting him, and all the other
things that aren't going to work.  Just do the meditations, be patient, get him to commit to you and you can
sex him then.
 

Hi.. I have a similar situation. Instead of Skype it was WA.Mixed signals after that. I know PW and BWD is working. Should
i just keep doing it. To be very honest, we both have tremendous physical attraction for each other and we get turn on the moment we start
talking either on emails or WA. I am equally to be blamed. We are not horny for each other but we truly want each other that time. It gets unavoidable. So he avoids talking to me saying i turn him on.

As i said earlier, he is seeing a girl for last 3-4 weeks.He has told me that he has not established any physical relationship with her as they are in different cities.
What i want to know if the experiences of PW/ BWD are solely for me or will get transferred to another person out of huge urge? 
 

Do I have to be in a meditative state all the time in order to connect with him?