I've visualised other scenarios with him but this is the one I do most, I've been doing it since middle of October and last weekend was the first proper conversation we have had, where we have actually gotten past the how are you before he disappeared and stopped replying.

I used to do it every night Blue, but since just before Christmas I started getting the I don't want to do this feeling so now I just do it when I get the feeling I want to (I've posted about this feeling in one of my other posts).  It's strange because since I started feeling like that, this is when things have really started happening for me with regards to ex coming back, other guys showing an interest etc!

I'm also very impatient LOL

Yes we will get our guys Evey

I agree it is a really good thing not feeling like you need to do it all the time, may sound strange but I feel like a weight has been lifted and i'm so much more relaxed and chilled.  I definitely feel like there has been a big shift in myself, I have me back and my control back.  The nights I don't do PW, BWD etc I might just do something like send him love or do the Deepak Chopra Love meditation (which I love) and have been doing a lot lately.

Evey2222 wrote:

That's really good Its like when we start not caring whether it comes or not as well because we are happy anyway! That is always a great feeling, even though you love them, they have no control over your emotions anymore xx

 
That sentence you said " it's like when you stop caring whether it comes or not as well we are happy anyway" i hope all the girls will read this and truly understand what that means!! Not nessarily not caring but putting themselves first!!💞

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Evey2222 wrote:

Me too! We must remember our worth xx

 
Yeah no truer words girly😂