1 - Joca
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After almost 5 months
So, after almost 5 month NC I saw him and said Hi. It was my impulsed reaction. I didn't know if he is going to say something or not. But... He looked at me with smile and said Hi and also some joke. After that we saw each other two times and he said Hi first. Second time we both start to laugh. Also, he talks more with my son and smile to him when he see him (he is not his father).
Before this, I manifested him few times. I walk with my dog and just I felt that he is coming. And I was right 
Now, I'm trying PW and doing visualizations and RS. Scripting, sometimes. From our HI went about 3 weeks and I believe and hope that he is mine.
Also, two days ago I were with my friends in restoraunt and I felt him so much. I couldn't take my eyes from window because I had feeling that he is going to come...
- Indigo
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Re: After almost 5 months
Joca wrote:
So, after almost 5 month NC I saw him and said Hi. It was my impulsed reaction. I didn't know if he is going to say something or not. But... He looked at me with smile and said Hi and also some joke. After that we saw each other two times and he said Hi first. Second time we both start to laugh. Also, he talks more with my son and smile to him when he see him (he is not his father).
Before this, I manifested him few times. I walk with my dog and just I felt that he is coming. And I was right
Now, I'm trying PW and doing visualizations and RS. Scripting, sometimes. From our HI went about 3 weeks and I believe and hope that he is mine.
Also, two days ago I were with my friends in restoraunt and I felt him so much. I couldn't take my eyes from window because I had feeling that he is going to come...
Welcome. NC doesn't mean don't talk to him if you see him. Why are you doing NC? What's the story?
Lanie's new book:
BREAKUP to MAKEUP: Getting Your "Ex" Back: (Dating & Relationship Advice) (FOR WOMEN ONLY Bk 4)
covers NC in-depth, when to use it and why.
And BWD is currently on sale for 99¢ but only for the next five hours.
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- Indigo
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Re: After almost 5 months
Oh, well... We had a big argument. He did and said lot of stuff and he blocked me... So, NC wasn't like option
So you are in NC because he initiated it? And you are not in control of anything?
Have you read Lanie's For Women Only series of books? If not I would advise
you to do so. Sitting with friends staring out the window waiting for him to show
up is not the thing to do. If you care to share more of your story, that would be
great. If not, get busy reading those books. It seems like you need them.
Five months is almost half a year, I hope you are doing other things besides
moping around because of a man.
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- Joca
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Re: After almost 5 months
Well I'm not crying every day, of course. I have a son, job, friends... But, yes he made the situation like this. I can't read Lanie's books because from my country we can't buy it.
Our relationship is very intensive with lots of ups and downs. He is the most intelligent man I ever met, very kind, nice... But... He obviously has some issues. He is the first man that I really love.
He is not perfect but nobody is and I want to try it again. Maybe it's a long time but time is relative, isn't it.
So, I don't understand perfectly- you are promoting Lanie's books, telling me that is a lot of time passed and that I'm moping because of the man. You see, I'm here to share my situation and to have a back up not to be judged in any way. I'm not judging to anyone and everyone has some story.
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Re: After almost 5 months
Well I'm not crying every day, of course. I have a son, job, friends... But, yes he made the situation like this. I can't read Lanie's books because from my country we can't buy it.
Our relationship is very intensive with lots of ups and downs. He is the most intelligent man I ever met, very kind, nice... But... He obviously has some issues. He is the first man that I really love.
He is not perfect but nobody is and I want to try it again. Maybe it's a long time but time is relative, isn't it.
So, I don't understand perfectly- you are promoting Lanie's books, telling me that is a lot of time passed and that I'm moping because of the man. You see, I'm here to share my situation and to have a back up not to be judged in any way. I'm not judging to anyone and everyone has some story.
No I'm not judging. I'm responding to your post mainly because no one else has bothered to do so and it's been
a couple of hours. Time is relative, and it really passes quickly when you are watching your children grow. My
children are adults and so I know all about time and how it passes. Anyway, it's too bad that you don't have
access to Lanie's books. They are great reads and filled with useful advice for all of us.
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Re: After almost 5 months
So, after almost 5 month NC I saw him and said Hi. It was my impulsed reaction. I didn't know if he is going to say something or not. But... He looked at me with smile and said Hi and also some joke. After that we saw each other two times and he said Hi first. Second time we both start to laugh. Also, he talks more with my son and smile to him when he see him (he is not his father).
Before this, I manifested him few times. I walk with my dog and just I felt that he is coming. And I was right
Now, I'm trying PW and doing visualizations and RS. Scripting, sometimes. From our HI went about 3 weeks and I believe and hope that he is mine.
Also, two days ago I were with my friends in restoraunt and I felt him so much. I couldn't take my eyes from window because I had feeling that he is going to come...
Welcome. NC doesn't mean don't talk to him if you see him. Why are you doing NC? What's the story?
Lanie's new book:
BREAKUP to MAKEUP: Getting Your "Ex" Back: (Dating & Relationship Advice) (FOR WOMEN ONLY Bk 4)
covers NC in-depth, when to use it and why.
And BWD is currently on sale for 99¢ but only for the next five hours.
Thank you Indigo for promoting my books! I forgot to post that I put BWD on sale! I appreciate you sister! xoxoxoxo
Big Hugs, Lanie
- Indigo
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Re: After almost 5 months
I see but I can't read them.
Thank you for your answer, I just wanted to say something about situation which was like a miracle to me. I didn't expect that we can have a new chance...
There's another really good book I've been reading entitled Searching for Courtship by Dr. Winnifred Cutler.
She is a biologist at the Athena Institute for Women's Wellness who co-discovered human sex pheromones.
The book is not about pheromones but rather human relations as it pertains to dating, courtship and marriage.
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- Indigo
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Re: After almost 5 months
Thank you Indigo for promoting my books! I forgot to post that I put BWD on sale! I appreciate you sister! xoxoxoxo
You're so welcome. I truly believe that your teachings can benefit all of us
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