jessieroro wrote:

Does anyone have experience doing PW on a man who deals with depression? If so, what have you found effective. I'm learning that this may be something my POI deals with and I think it's really effecting the way he feels about himself and also of course our relationship. Thanks!
  

  
  
My man is a Vietnam veteran who suffers from PTSD he has a lot
of anger management issues and PW is working perfect.  I think it
will work on anyone except if they are in a coma or something. 
  
  
 

Imagine him being happy, you want to send him unconditional love as well as happiness and see him receiving these things in your PW. Him being depressed won't hinder anything, I can assure you. Just keep doing the techniques of him saying what you want him to say - but also try to send him love as well.

jessieroro wrote:

Thanks so much guys. I totally do believe in PW and I've seen it already help with my situation. I just know my POI smokes a good amount of weed, I think to self medicate and I think it makes his depression worse in a way. So I'm trying to help with both the depression and getting him to cut back on the weed. I'm definitely sending him as much love as I can in my PW sessions.
  

  
  
Do try to get him to leave the reefer alone.  They are putting so many extra
chemicals and it's so much more potent than it was back in the day.  And
if he's on any type of medication and also smoking the reefer and maybe
combining those with alcohol, it could cause serious problems.
  
  

 

Yeah, totally agree Indigo. I have no idea if he's on meds but he could be. I think he also gets really top of the line stuff (he lives in NYC, so he definitely can get good stuff), BUT I totally agree the weed is not helping. I've been visualizing him really cutting back on weed and drinking.

WOW, that's so great Samibaby. Was there anything you did that you think really worked to get him to stop? I feel like it's a vicious cycle with him using it as medication of sorts and then being distant and indecisive with me, you know?