dannie wrote:

I get what you are saying Indigo. I think you were just saying that you had a regular day and you are right that even if you are in a relationship at the moment does not mean you have to be all up under each other on Valentines Day. I do not believe you had ill intentions by you post. Plus I wish I could get a king size bed! I reached out to my POI to wish him a Happy Valentines Day and he responded back immediately but last year he would not acknowledge me or the day. I wasn't expecting a response so I was pleasantly surprised. Do not focus on him focus on YOU then you will get a change in him. Things will get better once you start to see manifestations but you have to keep at it and have faith  
  

  
  
Exactly.  Anyways, I got the Pulaski Edington bed.  It is the bomb.  I wanted it to match a Pulaski
Cheswick master chest that I bought a couple of months ago and the Cheswick bed was too goth
for me.  I had my eye on this bed for a couple of months until I could manage it into my budget.
To make sure that there wasn't a bed that I'd like better I spent an entire day looking on Amazon,
ATGStores, Wayfair and Overstock and there are some really nice king beds at an affordable price.  
I got an Olee mattress that wasn't too expensive, it's a platform bed and it doesn't require a box
spring although I had to fortify the base.  Anyway, save up and you can get whatever you want.
If your room is small you can shove it against the wall, it's really not that much bigger than a
queen.
  
  

 

Indigo I love to shop!!!!! That's one of the things that gets me through. I just shop but i am going to have to look into what you're talking about. I love Joss and Main it's like Wayfair and you can spend all day on that site.  I try to listen to all advice given on here because I am learning from you all so I can only say read Lanie's books and listen to her MP3 as well. I just purchased CTC and BURN and I loved it.  Just keep trying and don't give up. We are here to try to help each other so even though you may be offended, be offended but learn from these ladies the same as I am doing. Have FAITH