unicornsnrainbows wrote:

So this is a guy you've never even met, who demands your facebook password, who tells you he doesn't want you talking to any other men, and you want to MARRY HIM??

Right: I did not want to give him my password. That was just unacceptable to me and I wouldn't do it.

I'm not too bothered about him not wanting me to talk to other men, because people get jealous and I think most of us would agree that we wouldn't want our guys chatting to other women either. I don't see that as too much of a big deal. 

Potentially, yes I would like to marry him. He is drop-dead gorgeous and there is a hell of a lot of chemistry. However, like I said, I wanted to take things slow, so that I could make the final decision further down the line. I've known him for a year, but mostly that was just as friends, and he was lovely then. Now things have got more romantic I need time to know whether this is right for me or not. There are thngs I like and things that give me warnign signals. But I'd like him to approach me again properly so that I can have a chance to find out. I'm not going to initiate.
 

Indigo wrote:

Sunshhine14 wrote:

Meanwhile I'm missing him badly. I feel totally in love. How do I handle this? What kind of Lanie meditation would be best for this situation?

 

  
  
There is NO Lanie meditation for this.  Unless I've missed something, PW or any
of her other meditation methods are not intended to be used on sociopaths that
you meet online.

Do yourself a favor and move on from this.  Seriously, you need to stay offline
with ​this person.  If you want to meet guys online, go to a dating site and find
someone who can actually court you in the real world.  Or sign up on It's Just
Lunch.  Or ask your friends to introduce you to somebody.  That's how you get
a real husband. 

It might be beneficial for you to use a Lanie Empower Yourself Meditation such
as "Ask for Inner Guidance" or "Powerful, Wonderful You."  


 

Thank you, Indigo.

It's ok. I wasn't specifically looking for a relationship online or a husband: it just kind of happened by chance and I found myself very drawn to him. Right now I feel like I'm in love, but I guess that feeling will pass.

 

Last edited by Sunshhine14 (2/19/2017 10:02 am)

You have never met the guy, you really do not know him. You can't marry someone you have only met on line and the interaction has been liking posts?  I can't believe what I am reading! Please take care. He sounds very strange. 

Sunshhine14 wrote:

Thankyou for your replies, everyone.

 I'm just going to let this go. I'm hurting a lot over this and I don't want to carry on this way. I'm also feeling angry at him now. I don't know yet whether I'll bother doing any more PW on him, but right now I'm not in the right frame of mind for it. 

What I don't understand is, if we have split up, why is he still liking all my FB posts, sending me that invitation to like the wedding clothes, etc?  And why did he contact me to say thank you for liking his post but never taking it any further when I was friendly? I mean, only half an hour ago I posted some photos of my town, and when I came back online just now I found he had liked the lot of them. But still he is silent. I really don't get it. I just don't know what's on his mind. 

Guess I'm over-thinking, but right now I can't help it.
  
 

  
  
It is perfectly okay to meet someone online, that is not the issue.  I met a man online years
ago and we became real life friends.  We met in person pretty quickly after making contact,
sending emails, exchanging snail mail, talking on the telephone, and making plans to meet.  
All of that occurred within a couple months.  We traveled to see each other and everything
was great but in the end it did not turn into a meaningful relationship but we are still friends
today.  One year is plenty enough time to actually meet that person in real life if he is truly
serious about having a relationship with you.

If you ended the relationship and he continues to follow you, it is either because he has got 
issues or he has nothing better to do.  The most important thing is that you have realized 
that this is not a healthy relationship and that there is no future here.

ALL that matters is YOU!
  
We all want to support you get through this and if we seem critical it is only because of that.   

  
 

Hi sunshhine14,
I'm glad you're able to see where everyone is coming from.

As for the likes, realistically likes dont mean anything. Dont waste your time wondering what it means, many of us get caught up in the trap of looking for signs and trying to decipher them.