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I'm really confused as to if this works all the time or not since time and time again I see this or something better post with people never getting the ex and getting someone "better" so am I wasting my time with attracting him back since its not 100% he'll come back ? I don't get it.. you do all this work on getting the guy you love for "someone better" ??
Last edited by Issykitten (2/23/2017 5:33 am)
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It's not that it doesn't work. Sometimes people just find someone better and who they like a lot more, and probably more suited. But if you finally get to a point where you have let go and become confident in your belief, you become open to the idea of meeting someone better because you love yourself and know that you deserve the best! Once you say "so and so" or someone better it takes away the limitations that could possibly arise. It's possible that when people find someone better, maybe subconsciously they just wanted someone to love instead of their POI. The desire was stronger to find unconditional love that just the POI. If you truly believe you are meant to be with your person, let go and let the universe do its thing! Hope this helped and made sense?
Last edited by Evey2222 (2/23/2017 5:50 am)
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so can I for sure get him back or not?...
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Issykitten wrote:
so can I for sure get him back or not?...
Hi sweetie, you can but the thing is you must be your own best guarantee of that.
Perhaps you need to take step back for now. Its ok to take a time out if emotions are overwhelming or frustrating you.
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You want to attract this specific person, go and attract this specific person! This is what your heart tells you to do now, so do it, don't doubt whether you can, don't doubt whether he is the one.
If you can not think of someone better for you at this moment, then there is no one better for you at this moment.
And maybe, just maybe, someday, someone else comes along who changes the game completely. It happened to me. I could not imagine anyone else, have even been with another guy and still thinking of my POI...through PW we became best friends, are closer now then we ever were before, but I still wanted more...until I looked K. in the eye...lightning struck....and my whole believe of 'the one' just tumbled upside down.
Maybe there is another guy out there who will make you forget your current POI. Then you won't care whether you attracted him back or not. Maybe there is no other out there for you. Then you will have him back. Either way, you will be completely and doubtlessly happy.
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Issykitten wrote:
so can I for sure get him back or not?...
If you believe you can get him back then yes. You are a mirror of your thoughts. If you believe you can't then that will be mirrored into your reality.
Check out Must Spark Joys 30 day ex back course(Google will bring it up straight away) , it really helps enlighten LOA and manifest.
Keep smiling you've got this! xx