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Positive spin on what would have been negative
Found out that my POI has been exchanging....dirty photo's/videos.... with some of my friends. Normally I would have been upset/discouraged but I'm assuming that he's doing that because he's overwhelmed with the effect of the spell ive been doing for 2 weeks (tonight is the end of week 2) and the PW/BWD ive been doing for 2 months. What do you think? Would my assumption be correct?
- Indigo
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Re: Positive spin on what would have been negative
Anti-Social wrote:
Found out that my POI has been exchanging....dirty photo's/videos.... with some of my friends. Normally I would have been upset/discouraged but I'm assuming that he's doing that because he's overwhelmed with the effect of the spell ive been doing for 2 weeks (tonight is the end of week 2) and the PW/BWD ive been doing for 2 months. What do you think? Would my assumption be correct?
I don't know why he is doing that but it is very inappropriate.
You say exchanging, as in your friends are sexting him back?
It seems to me that you need to have a talk with your friends
AND your man and not attribute this conduct to PW. Even if
it were the reason he's doing it, what could possibly be your
friends' excuse???
You seriously need to assess your situation.
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- emmiline
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Re: Positive spin on what would have been negative
Found out that my POI has been exchanging....dirty photo's/videos.... with some of my friends. Normally I would have been upset/discouraged but I'm assuming that he's doing that because he's overwhelmed with the effect of the spell ive been doing for 2 weeks (tonight is the end of week 2) and the PW/BWD ive been doing for 2 months. What do you think? Would my assumption be correct?
Hi sweetie, I agree with Indigo.
Don't ever compromise your ethics for a guy. Your morals must guide you when assessing if a man or relationship is viable. In my books, him exchanging dirty pics with my friends is a deal breaker.
I'm wishing you luck with the spell though.
All advice given is intended in the best interest of whomever I may be replying to & my opinions may not necessarily reflect those of the wider community on the forum.
- Anti-Social
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Re: Positive spin on what would have been negative
Found out that my POI has been exchanging....dirty photo's/videos.... with some of my friends. Normally I would have been upset/discouraged but I'm assuming that he's doing that because he's overwhelmed with the effect of the spell ive been doing for 2 weeks (tonight is the end of week 2) and the PW/BWD ive been doing for 2 months. What do you think? Would my assumption be correct?
I don't know why he is doing that but it is very inappropriate.
You say exchanging, as in your friends are sexting him back?
It seems to me that you need to have a talk with your friends
AND your man and not attribute this conduct to PW. Even if
it were the reason he's doing it, what could possibly be your
friends' excuse???
You seriously need to assess your situation.
Just to clarify he is not an ex and Im gonna PW him tonight. I will speak to my friends and ask that they stop exchanging photos with him. One of them knows how im against sending/recieving nudes and also knows that I have feelings for him. However the other friend doesn't know that I know so I will speak to her when I see her next. We will all be at the same event on friday (my friends and I and my POI) so I will assess the situation then decide what to do from there on.
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Re: Positive spin on what would have been negative
Found out that my POI has been exchanging....dirty photo's/videos.... with some of my friends. Normally I would have been upset/discouraged but I'm assuming that he's doing that because he's overwhelmed with the effect of the spell ive been doing for 2 weeks (tonight is the end of week 2) and the PW/BWD ive been doing for 2 months. What do you think? Would my assumption be correct?
Hi sweetie, I agree with Indigo.
Don't ever compromise your ethics for a guy. Your morals must guide you when assessing if a man or relationship is viable. In my books, him exchanging dirty pics with my friends is a deal breaker.
I'm wishing you luck with the spell though.
Thank you. Next time I see him I'll slip into the conversation my opinions on sending/recieving nudes. Im excited to hopefully see any signs of the love spells effect.
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