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3/02/2017 1:02 pm  #21


Re: Blocking/deleting etc doesn't make sense to me

It depends. If they are in a relationship, they will resist and block you  because they think they will stop thinking about you, it is logical to stay with who they are..if you take a look at "normal" situations where one of partners starts falling in love with someone else( coworker, friend,anybody), they deny it at first because they know they should be in love with their current mate...

I did BWD for 2 months and he did block me out of a blue. But next day his girlfriend started harrasing me on social media. She never before that knew who I was untl I started creating our relationship in my mind...It scared shit out of me because  I realised what our minds can do! 

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3/02/2017 1:19 pm  #22


Re: Blocking/deleting etc doesn't make sense to me

I copy pasted this story  from powerolawofattraction as I couldn't post link directly! 


So, I liked this girl that I met at a party a lot. She did strike me with her smile and blue eyes, but she is engaged. SHe never told me, we don't talk a lot but I got this tinny information from a friend of mine. So, anyways I decided to do rs on her because her being engaged really umph up the challenge just to see what happens. Every night I'd RS her for about 2 months. 1st signal was she unfriended me from fb. 2nd she blocked me out wihout NO reason! 3rd when she used to see me she would turn away or pretend talkin on the phone...Now you all thin I'm crazy and that those are really bas signs..or that my RS doesn not have any effect on her..but just wait before you give up on reading this.

So one day out of nowhere, we happened to meet again wit friend for a coffee. She was distant and cold...I was really bothered because I'm a talker and I easily make ppl like me and talk with everyone. So when she went for the bathroom alone.. she sudeenly gave me a glance, her eyes were sparkling..I decided to go see or figure out what was happening and why she blocked me on fb?? ( I alredy knew)  Anyways, when I approached her and said Hi, she was about to have a serious melt-down. I asked her why are you so cold why did you block me on fb?? And here's what she told me...I just can't handle it! Everyday after I met you, I think about you all the time! It's like I can't get you out of my head and I don't know why! Also I'm in love and engaged with a guy I truly love and those thoughts really make me feel insane. It's like I don't know who and what I want anymore!

She told me that and run away. SInce that day I stopped RSing her because I felt sorry for her as she was clearly confused and today I heard from my friend she is getting married. Who knows what would happen if I continued RS? But this is another huge proof it works! Her onfesing all that to me really did change my life! ALso now I'm really careful who I'm RSing because I don't want to mess up anyones head when they're in love with someone else. Have fun and be carefull who you RS next time. Let this be a lesson for you too! Kisses

3/02/2017 1:22 pm  #23


Re: Blocking/deleting etc doesn't make sense to me

Missy wrote:

I copy pasted this story  from powerolawofattraction as I couldn't post link directly! 


So, I liked this girl that I met at a party a lot. She did strike me with her smile and blue eyes, but she is engaged. SHe never told me, we don't talk a lot but I got this tinny information from a friend of mine. So, anyways I decided to do rs on her because her being engaged really umph up the challenge just to see what happens. Every night I'd RS her for about 2 months. 1st signal was she unfriended me from fb. 2nd she blocked me out wihout NO reason! 3rd when she used to see me she would turn away or pretend talkin on the phone...Now you all thin I'm crazy and that those are really bas signs..or that my RS doesn not have any effect on her..but just wait before you give up on reading this.

So one day out of nowhere, we happened to meet again wit friend for a coffee. She was distant and cold...I was really bothered because I'm a talker and I easily make ppl like me and talk with everyone. So when she went for the bathroom alone.. she sudeenly gave me a glance, her eyes were sparkling..I decided to go see or figure out what was happening and why she blocked me on fb?? ( I alredy knew)  Anyways, when I approached her and said Hi, she was about to have a serious melt-down. I asked her why are you so cold why did you block me on fb?? And here's what she told me...I just can't handle it! Everyday after I met you, I think about you all the time! It's like I can't get you out of my head and I don't know why! Also I'm in love and engaged with a guy I truly love and those thoughts really make me feel insane. It's like I don't know who and what I want anymore!


She told me that and run away. SInce that day I stopped RSing her because I felt sorry for her as she was clearly confused and today I heard from my friend she is getting married. Who knows what would happen if I continued RS? But this is another huge proof it works! Her onfesing all that to me really did change my life! ALso now I'm really careful who I'm RSing because I don't want to mess up anyones head when they're in love with someone else. Have fun and be carefull who you RS next time. Let this be a lesson for you too! Kisses

Wow that is amazing!!! Thank you so much for that!!

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3/02/2017 2:25 pm  #24


Re: Blocking/deleting etc doesn't make sense to me

I agree! But yeah. I totally appreciate everyone being so honest right now!

eleven wrote:

Hi again mrstkg! Thanks for clarifying that. I misunderstood your post completely! This is the downside to communicating through social media It can be difficult to gauge tone through messages sometimes.

3/02/2017 2:38 pm  #25


Re: Blocking/deleting etc doesn't make sense to me

There are really 4 main options when it comes to social media and being blocked or not.
1. You get blocked because they have no feelings and they don't want you to be connected in that way anymore or you're bothering them.
2. You get blocked because they don't want to be reminded of you and they don't want to contact you because they're struggling with their feelings for X reason.
(that shouldn't be that impossible to consider as an option as people do block people quite regularly that they want to forget about if they have feelings for them, it's recommended by lots of people).
3. You don't get blocked because they still have feelings for you and want to be able to keep an eye on you.
4. You don't get blocked because they don't want to cause drama or they like the attention or they are one of those types who never delete everyone and have a gazillion facebook friends.
 

3/02/2017 2:43 pm  #26


Re: Blocking/deleting etc doesn't make sense to me

Wow. Explains A LOT and it's actually the response from the other end. Thanx

ThisIsMyUsername wrote:

Missy wrote:

I copy pasted this story  from powerolawofattraction as I couldn't post link directly! 


So, I liked this girl that I met at a party a lot. She did strike me with her smile and blue eyes, but she is engaged. SHe never told me, we don't talk a lot but I got this tinny information from a friend of mine. So, anyways I decided to do rs on her because her being engaged really umph up the challenge just to see what happens. Every night I'd RS her for about 2 months. 1st signal was she unfriended me from fb. 2nd she blocked me out wihout NO reason! 3rd when she used to see me she would turn away or pretend talkin on the phone...Now you all thin I'm crazy and that those are really bas signs..or that my RS doesn not have any effect on her..but just wait before you give up on reading this.

So one day out of nowhere, we happened to meet again wit friend for a coffee. She was distant and cold...I was really bothered because I'm a talker and I easily make ppl like me and talk with everyone. So when she went for the bathroom alone.. she sudeenly gave me a glance, her eyes were sparkling..I decided to go see or figure out what was happening and why she blocked me on fb?? ( I alredy knew)  Anyways, when I approached her and said Hi, she was about to have a serious melt-down. I asked her why are you so cold why did you block me on fb?? And here's what she told me...I just can't handle it! Everyday after I met you, I think about you all the time! It's like I can't get you out of my head and I don't know why! Also I'm in love and engaged with a guy I truly love and those thoughts really make me feel insane. It's like I don't know who and what I want anymore!


She told me that and run away. SInce that day I stopped RSing her because I felt sorry for her as she was clearly confused and today I heard from my friend she is getting married. Who knows what would happen if I continued RS? But this is another huge proof it works! Her onfesing all that to me really did change my life! ALso now I'm really careful who I'm RSing because I don't want to mess up anyones head when they're in love with someone else. Have fun and be carefull who you RS next time. Let this be a lesson for you too! Kisses

Wow that is amazing!!! Thank you so much for that!!

3/02/2017 2:52 pm  #27


Re: Blocking/deleting etc doesn't make sense to me

marilyng wrote:

There are really 4 main options when it comes to social media and being blocked or not.
1. You get blocked because they have no feelings and they don't want you to be connected in that way anymore or you're bothering them.
2. You get blocked because they don't want to be reminded of you and they don't want to contact you because they're struggling with their feelings for X reason.
(that shouldn't be that impossible to consider as an option as people do block people quite regularly that they want to forget about if they have feelings for them, it's recommended by lots of people).
3. You don't get blocked because they still have feelings for you and want to be able to keep an eye on you.
4. You don't get blocked because they don't want to cause drama or they like the attention or they are one of those types who never delete everyone and have a gazillion facebook friends.
 

Yeah, this is what I've been mulling over. We can speculate all we want but it's difficult to know which of these 4 scenarios is the correct one. All we can do is trust that the process works and detach as much as possible, without speculating on what that person is doing or not doing at the moment. Easier said than done!

3/02/2017 4:18 pm  #28


Re: Blocking/deleting etc doesn't make sense to me

I enjoyed reading the responses from marilyng and missy. In a nutshell those are the reasons for being blocked / ignored, and most likely they are affected also by how things went down between you if there was a breakup (as pointed out by mrstkg).

It shouldnt matter to you if you are focused on the end result, and its why a lot of us warn against actively looking for and interpreting signs. If you are not careful, this will throw you off your game and mess up your routine, your vibe etc.

Lanie's techniques have power, it cant be stressed enough. You are definitly reaching your targets with PW and BWD.


All advice given is intended in the best interest of whomever I may be replying to & my opinions may not necessarily reflect those of the wider community on the forum.

 

3/02/2017 5:24 pm  #29


Re: Blocking/deleting etc doesn't make sense to me

I just deleted a post because I got reports sent to me.  Some people are offended with language so please keep it clean and respectful.  It's okay to disagree but I am not here to referee.  We are all adults so let's give our opinions in a respectful manner.  Thank you!

3/02/2017 5:33 pm  #30


Re: Blocking/deleting etc doesn't make sense to me

Lanie Stevens wrote:

I just deleted a post because I got reports sent to me.  Some people are offended with language so please keep it clean and respectful.  It's okay to disagree but I am not here to referee.  We are all adults so let's give our opinions in a respectful manner.  Thank you!

I understand. Just hope Blue can keep to herself and treat others with the respect they deserve. How she acts sometimes is NOT okay. I shouldn't have said the things I had I'm just fed up with how she's been toward myself and others.

Thanks Lanie.

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