awesomesauce88 wrote:

I know but it can be hard sometimes and today is a hard day to stop the negative thoughts. I appreciate the advice I don't expect anyone to do it for me it's just it's harder when you are feeling some days more. Yesterday good day very good night today I just couldn't seem to get my footing but I don't think one bad day will cause things I don't want. If positive vibes mean more then my super positive vibes yesterday matter more then negative.

When negative feelings show up, take that as an opportunity to practice more. Get into the feeling that what you are creating is already yours. And all this negative vibe is a temporary situation. And you know what, it really is.

Best Regards,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

DCS82 wrote:

Awesome, you need to calm down. Everything I've ever read about LOA states that the Universe doesn't understand yes or no. It's a feeling universe, and you get what you feel. What you are vibrating is based on your emotions, and everything I've read today shows insecurity and fear. If you keep projecting fear, fear, fear, you are going to manifest your fears. Jealousy, insecurity and fear aren't going to help you manifest what you want. You need to work on feeling good about things in your life. I don't know how many more ways I can say it.

The need to control things is also a counterproductive vibration. If you are trying to use the LOA to bring a loving relationship to you, part of that is trusting the Universe to bring it to you at the right time. Trying to manipulate and force the outcome shows lack of faith. You are going to have a hard time manifesting things you want with a lack of faith and an attitude full of fear. I know, I went through the same things. You have to take your time and just trust things will happen in their own, perfect time. Please, try and forget about this trip right now. You are obsessing over it and I'm telling you, if you are full of nothing but jealousy and fear...that's what you are going to get back. Please, relax and trust.

If you keep trying to contact him, you may push him away. Pushing him away is going to make you have more negative thoughts to overcome before you'll be able to move towards what you want. If you are in a situation where you are talking with him, you are already so far ahead of some people trying to manifest a relationship. A lot of people have already been blocked in every form by the one they love...so you need to recognize that you are in a GOOD position. Use that to your advantage and try to control your emotions right now. Don't freak out and text him endlessly. Do the methods, let him reach out to you.

Stay calm, try to focus on the GOOD. Do what makes you feel GOOD. Think about what you WANT and feel good about it. You'll be moving towards what you want at that time. In the meantime..let him come to you. Don't force it.

 

As of today I will be working on a test subject. He knows who I am already. But we have been out of communication for many years. I have no clue how he will be able to track me down. But I don't care. That is the job of the Universe to figure out and make happen. With my limited understanding, I can't conceive how he will find me. and if I think long and hard about it, then I will find all the ways it's impossible.

I hope she listens to you advice since you have a much gently way of saying it than I do.

Best Regards,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

You need to treat negative thoughts less as something to panic and push away and rather something to work *from*. So rather than going "I'm thinking negatively, bad things will manifest!" think "OK, I'm having a negative thought – it's time to replace it with a positive one then" and calmly find a good thought, and go to a slightly better place.

It's just about working your way up, not going instantly from "negative" to "positive" because it's really difficult to do that. Actually *recognising* that you are thinking in a negative headspace, and maybe even rolling it around your head for a few minutes, will help a lot.

The important thing to remember is YOU are in control of your thoughts. Not the other way around.

ChaliceSnowFlower wrote:

emmiline wrote:

awesomesauce88,

You seem to be in a place of confusion / anxiety and struggle right now. You need to learn to be in control of your emotions first before practising manifesting.

I just don't get it. She was fine for a while and I thought she was finally on track. She needs to practice letting go. That is the only way she is going to get this guy back. She needs to be more of the woman who is happy without him. Once he feels that vibration from her, he will come running right back.

This process took Lanie a whole year. She needs to let go of having him back in her life this very second. At the rate she is going, he will only leave her again and she will be right back to square one.

Best Regards,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

1) still in the process of changing my mind set no one is perfect
2)I am working on getting him
3) if they were not at this trip and I didn't see the things that I have seen on these things I wouldn't be as panicky

I can't do this if he has slept with anyone I can't. The problem I have is that we have been friends with benefits for months...and for him to do that knowing that it would hurt me if I knew?