emmiline wrote:

Not everyone has made the switch 100% i certainly have not. Its a journey - there is nothing special about your case or my case for that matter. We all have bad days but we are actively heeding and practicing the advice given by Lanie and our other friends here, thats the difference between everyone else and you.
Your posts promote the notion that you dont care that so many people here are trying to help you, you are just using this thread as an outlet to vent about your personal situation. Yes dear 'woe is me' is the exact energy im getting from you, im not going to lie or sugarcoat this. Take a good look at your situation and claim back your power over it.

This is what I have pretty much said in other words. I just survived two great major disasters in my life. But dwelling on them will only bring more of the same. As much as I don't like what has happened to me, I know that my case is not unique in anyway.

My finances are in the mud. And just last night I was nitpicking over what to eat for dinner. And then it hit me. There are hungry people all over the world who don't have the options to choose between one type of food over the other. They have to be satisfied with whatever they are given. Therefore my life really is not as bad as I might think it is sometimes.

Best Regards,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

awesomesauce88 wrote:

Sorry to bring you down. I have just been waiting for a long time and that is it.Do apologize to you, anyone else, ChaliceSnowFlower .

I don't need or want an apology from you dear. Use your energy to manifest positive things and people into your life. In the words of Beyonce, "Who Run The World, Girls."

Best Regards,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

Lanie Stevens wrote:

I totally agree!  All the negativity and doubt affects everyone!  You cannot continue reading negative thoughts OR hearing negative thoughts and have them not affect you.  

I had a friend for years and I had to give her an ultimatum.  I hated to do it but her attitude was affecting me and there was no advice that she heeded.  Eventually I told her that I could no longer be friends with her.  I would say prayers for her well-being but to be contacted daily with her latest "negative update" was too much for me to deal with.  Her negativity cost her a long term relationship, her health, all her money....everything!  I explained to her that as long as she continued to focus on what she didn't have and not appreciate all the many blessings she did have she would continue to experience what she was manifesting.  You cannot live life without appreciation.   She ended up losing everything she could possibly lose and then couldn't figure out WHY that happened to her. 

I did acquiesce and continue being her friend but I limit my exposure because she refuses to "see the light".  If someone is dragging you down you need to cut the cord.  For your sake as well as theirs.  

Wait a second here, you had a friend who never took your advice and wisdom to heart? I wished I had at least one friend like you since eons ago. I would be so far ahead of my game today.

Best Regards,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

Hi all!
I love this forum & Lanie for putting us all together this way!
What a blessing!
Anyway I just have a question about the technique everyone uses.
How does everyone feel connected to their guy/girl during the visualization?
Does everyone see themselves in the scene like watching it on a movie screen or just your significant other? From what I've learnt about loa I have to see it through my eyes so I don't see myself. Sort of like he's standing in front of me. Do you visualise his whole body or just his face?
I would love the opinion of others & what they see. Any help would be greatly appreciated!
Thankyou! xoxo

emmiline wrote:

Wonderful encouragement! It's easy to forget that we should come first and foremost ahead of anyone or anything we wish to manifest.

So true! Thanks for this!!