lostwoman wrote:

I cannot get the MP3 meditation download for pussy whip to open.  Any suggestions??

The MP3's are ready? How come no one told me about this?

Gorgeous Lucky Bitch,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

Empre$$ wrote:

Hi sisters (is there a introduce yourself thread?). Thanks so much for the books Lanie!!!!
I purchased the triple bundle of the books nearly 3 months ago after an ex broke up with me.
I only tried to use my whip on him once but then gave up because I was struggling to let it go. I would think about him all the time, low energy, check my phone and emails but wasn't able to send him positive thoughts and loving thoughts so the books started collecting cyber dust.

I recently met a guy who is the one I want he wanted me too but I wasn't in the right space on our 2 dates. So now this guy has told me hes not interested and I know exactly why. My vibes were off and I was distracted by my ex anyway I finally let the ex go now. I'm focused on using my p whip to get the new guy back but now I'm sending this guy positive messages and I'm feeling open to all the possibilities. It hasn't been 30 days yet but I feel its working even though the signs are not "obvious" I have faith hes getting my messages. I haven't tried to manifest anything into my life this month apart from him...unless you count manifesting positive energy into my life and confidence.

These books have given me a new lease of life. My spirit and energy are changing for the better. I'm working hard at being my best self not for him but for myself.  I feel invigorated and positive. Its something I work on every day. Book 3 is my favourite because its like that girlfriend that is always in your corner cheering you on. We women really do have something men start wars over! The quotes in book 3 give me so much confidence.
I tried the first technique in the burn with desire book (the p whip on steroids I like to call it LOL) I'm not going to go into too much detail but I felt something so strong it kinda scared me. Like he was sending me a message too or at least responding to my visualization. Theres no way he missed THAT message I sent him! I blush just thinking about it LOL

My question are,
1) when you want to use the whip to get someone back into your life is it ok to place yourself in situations or places that you know he visits. For example: taking a route home from work that you know he takes or is it better to use the whip and just get on with your normal routine?
2) Has anyone ever cried when using the P whip technique in book one?
3) What strategies do you advice for not checking your phone/email and just letting it go trusting the whip will work?
4) Have any sisters slipped between daydreaming and visualization? This is what I'm struggling with right now. I vizualise using meditation music then I see myself in my visualizations like I'm watching a movie. I know in the book Lanie said this is daydreaming?

Thanks in advance

No we don't have a introduce yourself thread. Welcome to this forum Empre$$.

1. You can use ANY background that brings up the most emotions for you. However keep your focus off it it and focus on the man or men standing in front of you.

2. I haven't cried. Maybe someone else can give you more information about this.

3. I have seen a few ladies here suggest locking their phones up in their cars. I personally don't have to do this. Work more on building your faith that it will all work out for you even though you can't see what is happening behind the scene. Now is the time for you to focus on your life. If you don't have a life, as I have seen some people say this before, build one. Put yourself in this guy's shoes. Would you be happy with the you that you are now who has no life? I'm not saying that is the case with you. Put your interests into other things. Look into a hobby or two. Start a part time online business. Do volunteer work. Get a pet to take care of. Spend more time with friends and family you have been neglecting. Write books and make some extra cash on the side. Create a blog and make some extra cash on the side. Teach a local class in your area to empower teen girls to have more confidence in themselves. Date other guys who show an interest in you. This is great confidence booster. The list of things you can do are unlimited. Use Google. She is your friend. As you take your focus off him and live your life, you won't care about checking your phone or your social media accounts to see if he has contacted you.

4. Sometimes it happens that you move between visualizing in the first person and the third person. All you have to do is gently bring yourself into the first person scenario again. Don't fret about it. That emotion won't help you. And keep in mind that you are doing this daily. It does not have to be perfect every single time. Focus on your positive emotions, that is where your true power lies.

Gorgeous Lucky Bitch,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

lostwoman wrote:

I cannot get the MP3 meditation download for pussy whip to open.  Any suggestions??

I have the description there but they won't be available for purchase until tomorrow (fingers crossed).  I will update y'all when they are up!

ChaliceSnowFlower wrote:

Empre$$ wrote:

Hi sisters (is there a introduce yourself thread?). Thanks so much for the books Lanie!!!!
I purchased the triple bundle of the books nearly 3 months ago after an ex broke up with me.
I only tried to use my whip on him once but then gave up because I was struggling to let it go. I would think about him all the time, low energy, check my phone and emails but wasn't able to send him positive thoughts and loving thoughts so the books started collecting cyber dust.

I recently met a guy who is the one I want he wanted me too but I wasn't in the right space on our 2 dates. So now this guy has told me hes not interested and I know exactly why. My vibes were off and I was distracted by my ex anyway I finally let the ex go now. I'm focused on using my p whip to get the new guy back but now I'm sending this guy positive messages and I'm feeling open to all the possibilities. It hasn't been 30 days yet but I feel its working even though the signs are not "obvious" I have faith hes getting my messages. I haven't tried to manifest anything into my life this month apart from him...unless you count manifesting positive energy into my life and confidence.

These books have given me a new lease of life. My spirit and energy are changing for the better. I'm working hard at being my best self not for him but for myself.  I feel invigorated and positive. Its something I work on every day. Book 3 is my favourite because its like that girlfriend that is always in your corner cheering you on. We women really do have something men start wars over! The quotes in book 3 give me so much confidence.
I tried the first technique in the burn with desire book (the p whip on steroids I like to call it LOL) I'm not going to go into too much detail but I felt something so strong it kinda scared me. Like he was sending me a message too or at least responding to my visualization. Theres no way he missed THAT message I sent him! I blush just thinking about it LOL

My question are,
1) when you want to use the whip to get someone back into your life is it ok to place yourself in situations or places that you know he visits. For example: taking a route home from work that you know he takes or is it better to use the whip and just get on with your normal routine?
2) Has anyone ever cried when using the P whip technique in book one?
3) What strategies do you advice for not checking your phone/email and just letting it go trusting the whip will work?
4) Have any sisters slipped between daydreaming and visualization? This is what I'm struggling with right now. I vizualise using meditation music then I see myself in my visualizations like I'm watching a movie. I know in the book Lanie said this is daydreaming?

Thanks in advance

No we don't have a introduce yourself thread. Welcome to this forum Empre$$.

1. You can use ANY background that brings up the most emotions for you. However keep your focus off it it and focus on the man or men standing in front of you.

2. I haven't cried. Maybe someone else can give you more information about this.

3. I have seen a few ladies here suggest locking their phones up in their cars. I personally don't have to do this. Work more on building your faith that it will all work out for you even though you can't see what is happening behind the scene. Now is the time for you to focus on your life. If you don't have a life, as I have seen some people say this before, build one. Put yourself in this guy's shoes. Would you be happy with the you that you are now who has no life? I'm not saying that is the case with you. Put your interests into other things. Look into a hobby or two. Start a part time online business. Do volunteer work. Get a pet to take care of. Spend more time with friends and family you have been neglecting. Write books and make some extra cash on the side. Create a blog and make some extra cash on the side. Teach a local class in your area to empower teen girls to have more confidence in themselves. Date other guys who show an interest in you. This is great confidence booster. The list of things you can do are unlimited. Use Google. She is your friend. As you take your focus off him and live your life, you won't care about checking your phone or your social media accounts to see if he has contacted you.

4. Sometimes it happens that you move between visualizing in the first person and the third person. All you have to do is gently bring yourself into the first person scenario again. Don't fret about it. That emotion won't help you. And keep in mind that you are doing this daily. It does not have to be perfect every single time. Focus on your positive emotions, that is where your true power lies.

Gorgeous Lucky Bitch,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

Thank you Shana for your excellent and empowering advice.  I absolutely love your insight and posts!  Especially about positive emotions and moving back into first person when you shift.  No daydreaming!

I have gotten tears in my eyes when I connect with someone.  I believe it's because it's a deep and profound connection and it is the way my body personally acknowledges it.  The hardest part for EVERYONE is to let go and KNOW that he got your message.  It was loud and clear and impossible to ignore.  The feelings will hit him in the stomach they are so intense.

I remind y'all of the first time I did the technique on blockhead John and the f**ker sat up in bed and told me what I visualized him saying.  If I had not been there in bed with him I wouldn't have known the impact it had!  I was lucky because I got immediate confirmation.  But it always works!  Period!  Always!

Welcome to the forum Empe$$!  I'm so happy you enjoyed the books and you're doing the exercises!  xoxoxoxoxoxo

ChaliceSnowFlower wrote:

Empre$$ wrote:

1) when you want to use the whip to get someone back into your life is it ok to place yourself in situations or places that you know he visits. For example: taking a route home from work that you know he takes or is it better to use the whip and just get on with your normal routine?
EDITED POST 3rd may

No we don't have a introduce yourself thread. Welcome to this forum Empre$$.

1. You can use ANY background that brings up the most emotions for you. However keep your focus off it it and focus on the man or men standing in front of you.

2. I haven't cried. Maybe someone else can give you more information about this.

3. I have seen a few ladies here suggest locking their phones up in their cars. I personally don't have to do this. Work more on building your faith that it will all work out for you even though you can't see what is happening behind the scene. Now is the time for you to focus on your life. If you don't have a life, as I have seen some people say this before, build one. Put yourself in this guy's shoes. Would you be happy with the you that you are now who has no life? I'm not saying that is the case with you. Put your interests into other things. Look into a hobby or two. Start a part time online business. Do volunteer work. Get a pet to take care of. Spend more time with friends and family you have been neglecting. Write books and make some extra cash on the side. Create a blog and make some extra cash on the side. Teach a local class in your area to empower teen girls to have more confidence in themselves. Date other guys who show an interest in you. This is great confidence booster. The list of things you can do are unlimited. Use Google. She is your friend. As you take your focus off him and live your life, you won't care about checking your phone or your social media accounts to see if he has contacted you.

4. Sometimes it happens that you move between visualizing in the first person and the third person. All you have to do is gently bring yourself into the first person scenario again. Don't fret about it. That emotion won't help you. And keep in mind that you are doing this daily. It does not have to be perfect every single time. Focus on your positive emotions, that is where your true power lies.

Gorgeous Lucky Bitch,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

Thank you Sister Shana aka Chalice for your informative response. I'm so grateful to you for taking the time to answer my questions. You are amazing!
I want to clarify the first question.
I mean IRL and not visualizations. Although the object of my desire and I had 2 dates he shared with me where he works, lives and likes to hangout so my question was Should I go to these places "accidentally on purpose" to increase my chances of bumping to him IRL. Should I place myself in these self-created situations where the likehood of seeing him is high. Or should I continue with my normal routine as before. Now that I've written this clarification I feel going to his hometown or the town he works will be like chasing him. Ugh now I feel like a stalker! I feel I should continue to trust the power of the whip like you so aptly said in your answer to question 3.
The only benefit for me going to his hometown or his hangout places is that the extra walking will be good for my health and losing weight

Thanks again Chalice
xoxo