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I have not been on the forum much. Dream guy and I were up and down. In fact he went a month without talking to me. I still had guy no.2 in the picture. We were only intimate because BWD was burning him up and he only could see an intimate relationship with me. I let go of doing basic or loving PW with him. I was ok with it. He filled a void.
I will tell you the most important thing I learned. Self love is so important. I had stopped loving myself. I stopped taking care of myself. I stopped taking myself out. I was acting desperate instead of a goddess who deserved the best and a good man! While he was ignoring me I took those 4 weeks to love myself. To appreciate my gifts and talents. Grow my business and write down my goals.
I kept the technique up. I put a wedding ring on my phone to stay intuned with the vibration of being married and in love.
A week ago I kept seeing his car everywhere. And then one morning I woke up at 5 am feeling anxious. I knew he was thinking of me. I called him He of course ignored my call and text. I just kept doing the technique.
Well he called. He was in a panic. He asked me to meet. We did and talked out a few things I had some issues with. He said last week he has to go the Dr because he woke up at 4am in sweats sick with his heart hurting. Doctor told him everything checked out fine. Asked him if he had fallen in love.. He knew he was divorced and dating. He told the Dr. This is the second time someone had asked me this. He said he was trying to resist me and the next obvious step in out relationship.
After dinner we got in his car to go back to his home. He made a stop. Well when he got out the car I started rambling through his stuff. I'm a woman so I snoop, lol.
Well I found a business card from a jeweler he visited in LA. In the back of the card was written ... Call me first when you are ready to make it official with her.
We went back to his place and made love like never before. I kept my cool. He got emotional. Cried. And confessed his love for me And willingness to go wherever I go because I am his. And lets just say that at the end of this week WE are looking for a place together! We are moving in together.
I expect that ring soon!
Keep the faith ladies. Its ok to have up and down days. Just get back on track. And practice self love. Trust me they feel it.
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Hello Bambi!
That's a great story. He went to the doctor because you were PWing him? That's
pretty wild. If I were you I'd get that ring before moving in together. I know moving
in is a commitment, but I'd still want more first. I would hate to be living together
and wondering when is it coming or him playing games about it. But that's just me.
I am married so I know about getting proposals and rings and how men can drag
things out.
And BTW, I'm big on snooping. How are we going to know things if we don't???
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Love this Bambi! Please keep us posted.
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Would love info/tips on your process! When I first began it was easy to really get into the PW, now it feels shallow, almost like I'm just doing basic visualization, not deeply meditating in the alpha state.
But seems like whatever you have done has really pierced him on the soul level!
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Wow! This is a really great story, Bambi! Thank you for sharing. Yes, I too would be interested in any tips or reflective bits you can offer!
Congratulations! xxxxxxx
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bambi wrote:
I have not been on the forum much. Dream guy and I were up and down. In fact he went a month without talking to me. I still had guy no.2 in the picture. We were only intimate because BWD was burning him up and he only could see an intimate relationship with me. I let go of doing basic or loving PW with him. I was ok with it. He filled a void.
I will tell you the most important thing I learned. Self love is so important. I had stopped loving myself. I stopped taking care of myself. I stopped taking myself out. I was acting desperate instead of a goddess who deserved the best and a good man! While he was ignoring me I took those 4 weeks to love myself. To appreciate my gifts and talents. Grow my business and write down my goals.
I kept the technique up. I put a wedding ring on my phone to stay intuned with the vibration of being married and in love.
A week ago I kept seeing his car everywhere. And then one morning I woke up at 5 am feeling anxious. I knew he was thinking of me. I called him He of course ignored my call and text. I just kept doing the technique.
Well he called. He was in a panic. He asked me to meet. We did and talked out a few things I had some issues with. He said last week he has to go the Dr because he woke up at 4am in sweats sick with his heart hurting. Doctor told him everything checked out fine. Asked him if he had fallen in love.. He knew he was divorced and dating. He told the Dr. This is the second time someone had asked me this. He said he was trying to resist me and the next obvious step in out relationship.
After dinner we got in his car to go back to his home. He made a stop. Well when he got out the car I started rambling through his stuff. I'm a woman so I snoop, lol.
Well I found a business card from a jeweler he visited in LA. In the back of the card was written ... Call me first when you are ready to make it official with her.
We went back to his place and made love like never before. I kept my cool. He got emotional. Cried. And confessed his love for me And willingness to go wherever I go because I am his. And lets just say that at the end of this week WE are looking for a place together! We are moving in together.
I expect that ring soon!
Keep the faith ladies. Its ok to have up and down days. Just get back on track. And practice self love. Trust me they feel it.
I am more then happy for you sweetie!! You're a goddess don't ever forget that!! Keep updating us with all your successes you're truly a manifesting genius!💞
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Hi bambi, thanks for stopping by to update us! You are so inspiring
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Thank you to everyone and all the comments.
I find that we often look for new techniques vs working on what we currently have.
Persistence and Consistency is the Key.
If you have read Lanie's book that is a great start. Stay consistent with the technique and try to not give up.
There will be up and down days. Figure out what works best for you during those down days. Play music, walk, read, write in a journal. Whatever to get your vibration and positive mood up. When you are feeling good the technique works. But, I can tell you if you are doubting heavily and fearful it will not work. You get exactly what you ask for, consciously or not. Your thoughts are always paying attention.
Stay focused on your goal but take the time to give yourself self love. You will feel better about yourself and you will feel good about the person you are doing the technique on.