"Everything you are going through is PREPARING you for what you asked for." 

Enjoy the process and be patient with it.  Don't react in a way that "redefines" what you're asking for.

Your problems are someone else's dreams. Be  grateful.

My family was having a discussion about fears. My mom has a ton of what I consider extreme fears or odd things that I wouldn't see happening.  During the talk,  one of my sister's told my mother not to "speak those things up" because she wouldn't want it to actually happen.  That moment stood out to me because my sister isn't into any of this stuff nor is she aware really.  But,  she has noticed that things have been "spoken up" before.  I think observations like that are great because they can serve as a form of confirmation of all that we're learning and talking about.

Love all these posts Avaelle!
We are living in the age of immediate gratification unfortunately and social media just feeds all that stuff..
Many years ago when I was very young I used to get hand written letters posted through the mail from boys who liked me, in between times there was all that time when you didn't have any expectations or thoughts about it because there wasn't any actual way they could be contacting you more....

I used to read a lot of "relationship" books. So did some of my girlfriends...things like "hes just not into you". It took a while for me to realise that this book was just full of slogans designed to sell the book! 
We are bombarded everywhere with information about what the perfect scenarios look like and life is rarely like that. We watch celebrities with carefully moulded public images posing and interacting.

It all comes back to going inside, to becoming creators and making our own creation instead of reacting to what we "see" on the outside.
Sometimes I find its good to take a break from social media. 
A good meditation leaves me with a feeling of "it is done". Its a discipline!

My ten cents worth..

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