Avaelle wrote:

Lj wrote:

I now know why I worry so much.
I worry that, if I don't think about my poi 24/7, they will forget everything about me. And then I will never get them back.
I also keep thinking about the phrase "you get what you think about the most". And if I don't think about them and what I want with them, then I definately won't get my desire fulfilled.
It's almost become an obsession and manic.
I go days when I try not to think about them and I feel fine. But I also become afraid that I'm just pushing them further away.
It's driving me crazy.
I probably shouldn't be worrying so much...
I know all these worries are just making everything worse. I just can't seem to let go of the thoughts. And... "thoughts become things". I could probably easy change all of this.

If you just think of them 24/7, what would they be coming back to? If you need something to do,  you need to create a life for them to step into. 

"You need to create a life for them to step into"- I love that

Alexia_Michelle wrote:

Just a bit of experience sharing..the moment I have my man back, like i really have him back that he would bend on his knee just to have me back, was the moment i started to see another guy and plan to get into a serious relationship that i would move to his country in the end of this year.

My man was completely at the bottom of my priority list at that time. I have no contact whatsoever with him for 6 months. I deleted his number, blocked him out of my facebook and skype. I stumbled upon his email address when i tried to email several important documents to my own email account. His email address and mine are both startes with he same letter, so when you type one, another address started with he same letter will also popped out. Since i have planned to move out of the country in near future, i thought well, lets just say something nice for one last time for a good farewell. So i only wrote, "Hope you have a great life. Bye" for the subject and left the content completely empty because i didn't really want to write anything but letting go the bitter past.
An hour after that he replied my email and we started to email each other. Somewhere along the email convo he asked me whether i'm seeing anyone, and i answered i do see someone and will move to his country at the end of the year.
The next thing i know, he asked for my number-which later i gave-and he literally begging me not to leave, and all, i mean ALL the single words i visualized him to say to me came out of his mouth.
Every single word!
Even as I write this message, he is texting me telling me how much he loves me-and he's been telling me constantly since the moment he called me until now. He swore he will tell me he loves me everyday that I would sick of it and told him to shut up.

If he is still your number one priority and not your own happiness, still your reason to be happy, then I'm very truly sorry, but any tips Lannie has given to us through her wonderful books won't ever work on you.

It's been over 6 months since I've heard from him. This helps a lot. 
 

Claire_Bear wrote:

Lanie Stevens wrote:

Avaelle wrote:

When I saw the subject of this thread, I knew that the starter of it was you. :-( Most of the posts I’ve seen from you have consisted of you speaking on how the techniques aren’t working for you, how they work for everyone else and how it is taking too long to see results. You don’t seem to realize it but LOA is giving you exactly what you’ve been focusing on.
 

Thank you for your "spot on" post! I'm not trying to kick anyone when they're down but you can tell who will manifest what they desire and who won't buy their posts.   My sisters who are always saying things like  "it isn't working, I can never do anything right, I'm feeling so depressed I can't get out of bed, no one loves me, I will never find happiness…" Wonder why they aren't manifesting positive things.   it's easy for everyone else to see why!

I challenge the people on the forum to go back and read what they have written to see if they have been in a positive frame of mind. Remember, love is the highest vibration of all! If you are not resonating with that vibration then you will not manifest it. The best way to manifest anything is to feel love, gratitude and appreciation for your life and everything in it. If everything is wonderful and all you are missing is your man, then life is pretty good.  

 Start loving your life and love will be attracted to you!

There is another poster on here who is just the same, a guy though, all negative panicky posts. 

What a lovely thing to add. 

Alexia_Michelle wrote:

Just a bit of experience sharing..the moment I have my man back, like i really have him back that he would bend on his knee just to have me back, was the moment i started to see another guy and plan to get into a serious relationship that i would move to his country in the end of this year.

My man was completely at the bottom of my priority list at that time. I have no contact whatsoever with him for 6 months. I deleted his number, blocked him out of my facebook and skype. I stumbled upon his email address when i tried to email several important documents to my own email account. His email address and mine are both startes with he same letter, so when you type one, another address started with he same letter will also popped out. Since i have planned to move out of the country in near future, i thought well, lets just say something nice for one last time for a good farewell. So i only wrote, "Hope you have a great life. Bye" for the subject and left the content completely empty because i didn't really want to write anything but letting go the bitter past.
An hour after that he replied my email and we started to email each other. Somewhere along the email convo he asked me whether i'm seeing anyone, and i answered i do see someone and will move to his country at the end of the year.
The next thing i know, he asked for my number-which later i gave-and he literally begging me not to leave, and all, i mean ALL the single words i visualized him to say to me came out of his mouth.
Every single word!
Even as I write this message, he is texting me telling me how much he loves me-and he's been telling me constantly since the moment he called me until now. He swore he will tell me he loves me everyday that I would sick of it and told him to shut up.

If he is still your number one priority and not your own happiness, still your reason to be happy, then I'm very truly sorry, but any tips Lannie has given to us through her wonderful books won't ever work on you.

were you doing PW/BWD  during that NC period of 6 months?
 

Wasi wrote:

Alexia_Michelle wrote:

Just a bit of experience sharing..the moment I have my man back, like i really have him back that he would bend on his knee just to have me back, was the moment i started to see another guy and plan to get into a serious relationship that i would move to his country in the end of this year.

My man was completely at the bottom of my priority list at that time. I have no contact whatsoever with him for 6 months. I deleted his number, blocked him out of my facebook and skype. I stumbled upon his email address when i tried to email several important documents to my own email account. His email address and mine are both startes with he same letter, so when you type one, another address started with he same letter will also popped out. Since i have planned to move out of the country in near future, i thought well, lets just say something nice for one last time for a good farewell. So i only wrote, "Hope you have a great life. Bye" for the subject and left the content completely empty because i didn't really want to write anything but letting go the bitter past.
An hour after that he replied my email and we started to email each other. Somewhere along the email convo he asked me whether i'm seeing anyone, and i answered i do see someone and will move to his country at the end of the year.
The next thing i know, he asked for my number-which later i gave-and he literally begging me not to leave, and all, i mean ALL the single words i visualized him to say to me came out of his mouth.
Every single word!
Even as I write this message, he is texting me telling me how much he loves me-and he's been telling me constantly since the moment he called me until now. He swore he will tell me he loves me everyday that I would sick of it and told him to shut up.

If he is still your number one priority and not your own happiness, still your reason to be happy, then I'm very truly sorry, but any tips Lannie has given to us through her wonderful books won't ever work on you.

were you doing PW/BWD  during that NC period of 6 months?
 

oh i even did it after a date lol. try dating again, seriously. it helps you enjoying life more. when you surround yourself with people with positive energy, you def will caught their positivity.