I wonder would Lanie consider writing a book or making meditations mainly focused on self love but maybe incorporating a little bit of PW at the end.
The reason I suggest that is because people often don't want to give up doing PW totally but continuing obsessively with the techniques isn't doing them any good and they find they can't focus on themselves.
I'm thinking something like imagining yourself happy in certain situations and all sorts of affirmations...and then perhaps link up with the POI at the end when he/she comes into the visualisation and tells you how much they missed you and how great it is to see them so happy and vivacious and it makes them love them more.
Maybe it could help some people out of a negative slump and switch their focus more to themselves which will get their vibe up!
Just an idea!

Alexia_Michelle wrote:

Just a bit of experience sharing..the moment I have my man back, like i really have him back that he would bend on his knee just to have me back, was the moment i started to see another guy and plan to get into a serious relationship that i would move to his country in the end of this year.

My man was completely at the bottom of my priority list at that time. I have no contact whatsoever with him for 6 months. I deleted his number, blocked him out of my facebook and skype. I stumbled upon his email address when i tried to email several important documents to my own email account. His email address and mine are both startes with he same letter, so when you type one, another address started with he same letter will also popped out. Since i have planned to move out of the country in near future, i thought well, lets just say something nice for one last time for a good farewell. So i only wrote, "Hope you have a great life. Bye" for the subject and left the content completely empty because i didn't really want to write anything but letting go the bitter past.
An hour after that he replied my email and we started to email each other. Somewhere along the email convo he asked me whether i'm seeing anyone, and i answered i do see someone and will move to his country at the end of the year.
The next thing i know, he asked for my number-which later i gave-and he literally begging me not to leave, and all, i mean ALL the single words i visualized him to say to me came out of his mouth.
Every single word!
Even as I write this message, he is texting me telling me how much he loves me-and he's been telling me constantly since the moment he called me until now. He swore he will tell me he loves me everyday that I would sick of it and told him to shut up.

If he is still your number one priority and not your own happiness, still your reason to be happy, then I'm very truly sorry, but any tips Lannie has given to us through her wonderful books won't ever work on you.

That is truly great news. Congratulations! However, I hope you don't change everything about your life to accommodate him. It sounds like you have moved on and have someone else in your life now. Don't throw it all away unless he proves, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that he can be the man you need him to be.

Alexia_Michelle wrote:

Lanie Stevens wrote:

Alexia_Michelle wrote:

Just a bit of experience sharing..the moment I have my man back, like i really have him back that he would bend on his knee just to have me back, was the moment i started to see another guy and plan to get into a serious relationship that i would move to his country in the end of this year.

My man was completely at the bottom of my priority list at that time. I have no contact whatsoever with him for 6 months. I deleted his number, blocked him out of my facebook and skype. I stumbled upon his email address when i tried to email several important documents to my own email account. His email address and mine are both startes with he same letter, so when you type one, another address started with he same letter will also popped out. Since i have planned to move out of the country in near future, i thought well, lets just say something nice for one last time for a good farewell. So i only wrote, "Hope you have a great life. Bye" for the subject and left the content completely empty because i didn't really want to write anything but letting go the bitter past.
An hour after that he replied my email and we started to email each other. Somewhere along the email convo he asked me whether i'm seeing anyone, and i answered i do see someone and will move to his country at the end of the year.
The next thing i know, he asked for my number-which later i gave-and he literally begging me not to leave, and all, i mean ALL the single words i visualized him to say to me came out of his mouth.
Every single word!
Even as I write this message, he is texting me telling me how much he loves me-and he's been telling me constantly since the moment he called me until now. He swore he will tell me he loves me everyday that I would sick of it and told him to shut up.

If he is still your number one priority and not your own happiness, still your reason to be happy, then I'm very truly sorry, but any tips Lannie has given to us through her wonderful books won't ever work on you.

That is truly great news. Congratulations! However, I hope you don't change everything about your life to accommodate him. It sounds like you have moved on and have someone else in your life now. Don't throw it all away unless he proves, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that he can be the man you need him to be.

Thanks Lanie!! You don't know how grateful I am of your advices through your wonderful books and meditations mp3s!! He is in a week probation now, i give him a week to reasure his sincerity. And you're right, i won't keep the guy i'm dating with now at a bay. It's not like I'm a cheater, but I deserve to have the best man.
Thank you for another precious advice!!😘😘😘

You're welcome! Personally I would make him walk through burning coals for a month! LOL   I just say that because anyone can be on good behavior for a week! Whatever happens I am behind you!  xoxoxoxoxo