No, you totally make sense! That's what I've been trying to do. Going out with him I try to act a little more confident. I know he enjoys hanging out with me and spending time with me or else why would he be spending this much time with me?
I know we have great sexual chemistry and we are both still very, very attracted to each other. The feelings part on his end just isn't there yet but I don't doubt that it will change. I know it will. We were together for 6 years (5 officially) so I find it hard to think that literally overnight he was just like eh i'm just not in love with you anymore. 
HE'S the one that came back contacting me after we officially broke up and after 10 days of no contact on my end. And he's so far been the one initiating the texts for the last almost two months and we've both been inititating the hangouts and such. I don't know. I feel like things are going too well for it to just be a simple "We're just friends" situation. But that's just me.