mrstkg wrote:

"When things heated up" what do you mean? Did he get married "on" you? Then you found out later?

Tess wrote:

My original POI, I didn't realise it at the time, I knew that he got a girlfriend (that was between times of doing PW and BWD on him, I also took a year off anyone!  Well, I found out when things heated up between us in March that he actually got married back then, but it didn't work out!  So, I guess what I'm trying to say is, it doesn't necessarily mean that's it.  ;-) 

When he was single again, we got in touch and saw each other a couple of times.  I did PW on him and BWD and CTC because I thought he said all these horrible things to me in a message so I thought RIGHT!  We worked out later it was his friend (who is a bit crazy) who actually took his phone and sent the messages.  Or so he says, but knowing his friends and seeing how confused he was when I confronted him, I think that's possible.  Either way, so we met a few times and one of these times he was acting like he thought I was the most beautiful woman etc and trying to make a move (things heating up) and we were also talking about the messages and it came out about his former marriage.