I think the first thing I think you should do is shift your mindset . Specifically the "I'm afraid it isn't salvageable because everything I've put him through" part. Shift the thoughts that he may be difficult to get. Even shift the thoughts that he's mad at you.
Think of why you really feel the way you do in relationships (the jealousy, the insecurities) and work on changing those thoughts as well. Basically whatever it is that's in the way, write affirmations that are the opposite and work on it. 💛
For example, I would think that my guy is being really stubborn and maybe he's mad at me. Well that definitely didn't put me in the right vibration to bring him back lol.  It just caused more blockages...So, I began convincing myself of the opposite. And knowing that these are just fears that I (or my ego) created...
But overall, I think you're actually doing very well. I mean he's already "back" a week later and you know not to chase.. Just keep at it :-)

Thank you so much to both of you!

Last edited by Mikaela (4/14/2018 5:42 pm)

There is still work to be done. Just because people get back together, doesn't mean that it will be smooth sailing - the issues that caused the break-up NEED to be addressed and fixed, and a new relationship needs to develop from that; not the same old one where you ended up being separated. 

And, imho, what you worry about is what you're going to get. See things how you desire them to be and live that. Takes practice, but can be done if you want it to be.

It's very possible it is YOUR doubts that are causing his behavior. I think you should just give him some time to figure things out. Meanwhile you do the techniques and work on yourself. 

I think the first thing you should figure out is what is why that happened. It's very possible to self-sabotage and not even know it - I did it, but it can be fixed. It's something within you perhaps that makes you feel as though you are not "worthy" of the relationships you've had. I know it sounds weird, but when we feel a certain way, even if we are not fully aware of it, we give off that energy. Unfortunately, this can have an impact on our relationships, and life in general.

I never used to think that I was the cause of everything that happens to me, but through much heartbreak and a lot of reading, I realized it. You can get through this. As hard as it is now, you will survive. Also know, that you can change this. It's never too late to change things. Like I said, work to get back to a decent vibe and continue with the techniques if you still want him. If not, you can use the techniques to help yourself move on.