1 of 1- Lily28
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How to handle hot and cold communication?
The situation I'm in isn't unique or anything. Same as most of you ladies, my issue I'm having with my POI will text me every few months. He has been texting me every other month since march, once or twice a month. Generally I've kept it short, and said I'm busy at work or I'm going to bed. Everything that he has texted me about has been casual, and about the same subject. I'm not trying to rush the process between him and myself, I know the universe will give me what I want regarding him, just trying to get some insight here. The problem is should I even bother responding until he says something I want to hear?
- Glovergirl
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Re: How to handle hot and cold communication?
Stay warm and inviting. No need to be cold or short to the poor chap when he does message you just because you've not heard what you want to hear. When men reach out, you're on their mind and it can very well be he is testing the waters. Come from a place of love, you get so much more.
- Lily28
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Re: How to handle hot and cold communication?
True. He did have some good news recently, and I did congratulate him then talked to him for a while about it. I'm trying to be inviting I suppose, just impatience on my end. He does have a tendency to test the waters. I think it's just him on needing to go on his own pace. I'll probably will just have be very patient. I know him and I will get there. Thanks for the response! 
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