forgetmenot111 wrote:

That is such amazing news!! Although, I was not on the forum before to read your story, it was very uplifting to read just now!

Can I ask, had you gone on any dates within those 10 months?  Also, what techniques did you do within those 10 months? I finally feel detached again, and super upbeat, which I know is the best state to be in to continue practicing Lanie's techniques. 

Thanks! Really looking forward to hearing more!

Yes, I dated another guy. I mean why not, I wished to enjoy my life too. I travel a lot too and hang out with new people. Simply enjoying my life with no hesitation.
I did the PW, CTC and BWD for like 7 months, and then stop doing all of them for 3 months. Not because I didn't believe they work, but I believed they all work and I should let them work instead of keep pursuing and worrying about the result. Those 3 months I spent on dating and traveling. I tried not to be heavily depending on the techniques but starting to activate my faith in full mode. That, I believe, enhancing the power of Lanie's techniques.

Don't give up, girl! Some days are sucks but those are just the stepping stones to your success. Just imagine climb up the stairs. Sometimes you're out of breath, your knees start to hurt a little bit. It's ok to stop for awhile to take a deep breath and relaxing your feet, sit down to rest and chill for a while if you want to, it won't stop you from getting to your destination, just keep on climbing.

Last edited by Alexia_Michelle (8/27/2017 2:59 pm)

Lets say..i was dating another guy, but still think about him now and then, yet i think only the good things. That he was healthy, safe and missing me (He was healthy,safe, and missing me like hell. He never had the day pass without feeling sorry for leaving me-that's what he said) and that we will get back together anytime soon.

Meanwhile at the same time, I was also trying to really like the guy I was dating with. Long story short, I eventually liked him a lot, although not in love.
So..if I can say it to be precise, I detached all the worries about my man. Still think about him but not im negative, clingy, needy manner.

Last edited by Alexia_Michelle (8/27/2017 6:30 pm)

That's great! And makes much sense. I know it's been said that no situation is too unique or complicated to work, but my guy and I were casually dating for 8 months. But I truly believe we're perfect for each other. Plus he definitely demonstrates signs of being scared of commitment. So with the proper thinking, self love, no clingy or desperate feelings, you think he and I could wind up together?

This this and I mean this is absolutely wonderful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so very very happy for you on your grade point average finishing strong, reconciling with your man AND your wonderful lovely engagement!!!!!!! This story has made my day and I plan to re-read it to help me along. Thank you so much for sharing and welcome back.