I hate to say the same thing over and over, but you get what you expect - if you are putting the feelings out there that he is "up to no good," then that's what you're going to see in your reality. Maybe do some sessions where you hear and see him do what you desire.

Also, maybe some don't agree with me on this, but I think expecting/wanting an apology from anyone is ego driven *shrug.* It's so important to just forgive and move on, even though there are situations where that is more difficult and is a process. But the little things should be easier.

Winters_Rain wrote:

Ok long story short, last year I met a guy, I wasn't really looking for a relationship at the time but he pursued me and kept pursuing me until I gave into his charms and eventually fell for him........hard. But something felt off, he made excuses about my messages not going thru cause his phone was supposedly broken, made excuses to never stick to plans we made etc and then he just went completely silent on me.

I ended up going to his house one night to make sure he was ok, but the woman who he told me was his housemate answered the door and asked who I was. I then was told she was his long term girlfriend. I was upset, livid but yes call me a fool I still had feelings for him. I cut him out of my life, deleted everything of him on my phone, did BW and PW and also did the love spell for a fortnight. I then ended up feeling useless like I couldn't win so I stopped completely, and threw out the picture of him candle used for the spell.

A few months past then one night I logged into my unused for months badoo account to close it for good..........and behold there was notifications of him viewing my profile on there. I sent him a message saying "does your GF know your on here still" thinking I wont hear back zip. He replied an hour later saying he and his GF broke up, he is living back at his mothers and he is so very sorry for lying to me and that he fell for me when he first met me but was in a toxic relationship and was too comfortable with the living situation of owing a house with her. He said he wanted to see me again and I said I demand a proper apology in person and a massive explanation why. So he said we would catch up on monday after work. after that night I began doing BW and PW on him again.

He texted me saying he cant due to a meeting after work (fair enough) and said tomorrow night instead. He never showed up or replied to my texts. I ended up sending him an email saying "so whats the deal? where is my apology" He replied that he was sick yesterday and sent me a text (which I never got but I have no problems receiving texts on my phone from anyone) and replied can I see you on the weekend. I smell suspicion again, maybe he is still with his GF? I know Im an idiot and a fool for still having feelings for him but I cannot help it.

Could my introduction of using PW and BW on him again hinder any progress? cause now I feel like its gone backwards since I started using Lanies techniques again

 

Never ever entertain an unwanted feeling or think sympathetically about any wrong in any shape or form.
Do not dwell on the imperfections of yourself or anyone else. To do so is to impress on the subconscious with these limitations which will make them all all true! Your thoughts reinforce the bad situation anytime you think a bad thought about anyone! ~ Neville Goddard

Mcleanie77 wrote:

Winters_Rain wrote:

Ok long story short, last year I met a guy, I wasn't really looking for a relationship at the time but he pursued me and kept pursuing me until I gave into his charms and eventually fell for him........hard. But something felt off, he made excuses about my messages not going thru cause his phone was supposedly broken, made excuses to never stick to plans we made etc and then he just went completely silent on me.

I ended up going to his house one night to make sure he was ok, but the woman who he told me was his housemate answered the door and asked who I was. I then was told she was his long term girlfriend. I was upset, livid but yes call me a fool I still had feelings for him. I cut him out of my life, deleted everything of him on my phone, did BW and PW and also did the love spell for a fortnight. I then ended up feeling useless like I couldn't win so I stopped completely, and threw out the picture of him candle used for the spell.

A few months past then one night I logged into my unused for months badoo account to close it for good..........and behold there was notifications of him viewing my profile on there. I sent him a message saying "does your GF know your on here still" thinking I wont hear back zip. He replied an hour later saying he and his GF broke up, he is living back at his mothers and he is so very sorry for lying to me and that he fell for me when he first met me but was in a toxic relationship and was too comfortable with the living situation of owing a house with her. He said he wanted to see me again and I said I demand a proper apology in person and a massive explanation why. So he said we would catch up on monday after work. after that night I began doing BW and PW on him again.

He texted me saying he cant due to a meeting after work (fair enough) and said tomorrow night instead. He never showed up or replied to my texts. I ended up sending him an email saying "so whats the deal? where is my apology" He replied that he was sick yesterday and sent me a text (which I never got but I have no problems receiving texts on my phone from anyone) and replied can I see you on the weekend. I smell suspicion again, maybe he is still with his GF? I know Im an idiot and a fool for still having feelings for him but I cannot help it.

Could my introduction of using PW and BW on him again hinder any progress? cause now I feel like its gone backwards since I started using Lanies techniques again

 

Never ever entertain an unwanted feeling or think sympathetically about any wrong in any shape or form.
Do not dwell on the imperfections of yourself or anyone else. To do so is to impress on the subconscious with these limitations which will make them all all true! Your thoughts reinforce the bad situation anytime you think a bad thought about anyone! ~ Neville Goddard

I LOVE THIS! Thank you for posting it. I think everyone can get to a point where they overthink about someone/something and allow negative thoughts to take hold, if only for a split second. I have been struggling with this all day for some weird reason and it's just what I needed, like a swift kick .
 

Mcleanie77 wrote:

Piper wrote:

Mcleanie77 wrote:

 

Never ever entertain an unwanted feeling or think sympathetically about any wrong in any shape or form.
Do not dwell on the imperfections of yourself or anyone else. To do so is to impress on the subconscious with these limitations which will make them all all true! Your thoughts reinforce the bad situation anytime you think a bad thought about anyone! ~ Neville Goddard

I LOVE THIS! Thank you for posting it. I think everyone can get to a point where they overthink about someone/something and allow negative thoughts to take hold, if only for a split second. I have been struggling with this all day for some weird reason and it's just what I needed, like a swift kick .
 

 Oh yay!! I go back to this quote in my head when I’m slipping back too!😀💞

Thank you. I will keep it as a note in my phone and read it when I am feeling off.
 

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