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After doing BWD almost every night for almost a month (I think I missed a day or two) I have more results from my POI at his bands gig. Once again we had intense eye contact during very specific lines in songs (eg when he sang the line "...when I first kissed you) and he would have a big grin on his face when he saw me singing along. After they played, he walked past me, with a grin, said hello and stroked my arm/bicep slowly. The second time he walked past he pretended to ignore me, the third time however, he stopped gave me a hug, had his hands on both my shoulders and was bending down/leaning in really close when talking to me (he's quite taller then me) He was standing super close, invading my personal space while we were talking as it was loud in the venue however when the next band started playing and knowing he's always super busy I half expected him to go talk to other people/pack away his equipment but instead he stayed standing next to me, with our shoulders now touching, occasionally leaning in to make small talk in between songs before he then excused himself to go outside for fresh air.
I had to leave the gig early as I had work the next day, when I told him I was leaving he looked disappointed, I called out goodbye as he was walking away, he hesitated before he replied sounding sad/disappointed and telling me to get home safe,
I'm feeling a really strong 'nudge' from the Universe to do the love spell tonight, I don't own any candles so my question is can the love spell be done without any candles? Can I just visualize the candle before I do the spell?
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Instead of making another post I thought I'd just update again in this thread;
I started feeling a bit of self-doubt and questioning whether the technique was working and my POI's feelings are developing or if he's just 'being friendly' so at his bands most recent gig I decided to compare my interactions with him to my interactions with his bandmates.
in the 3hrs I was at the gig, my POI gave my 6-7 super close bear hugs, and stood super close when we're talking, (even before loud background music starts playing) his bandmates only gave me a hello and goodbye one armed 'bro hug' and stood within a 'normal' distance.
My POI was also very apologetic when one of his friends approached him and try to start a conversation, it seemed like he was trying to shut down the conversation and keep talking to me, he also apologized when his phone kept going off and he looked annoyed, when he promised we'd continue our conversation later he walked off in the direction where his on/off girlfriend was standing (I suspect she was the one texting him)
He also walked behind me, gave me a cheeky grin and playfully pinched/squeezed the back of my elbow as he walked past all in front of his girlfriend,
I've realized its become more noticeable how he acts around his girlfriend, he always looks super uncomfortable/annoyed walking to/away from her and stands/walks with a great distance between them and shows no p.d.a (public displays of affection) with her despite him being super affectionate with me and other fans (compared to his bandmates who hold hands with/put their arms around their partners)