Feelings of inferiority and doubt and fear will manifest more of its kind. A seed grows after its own kind. Age gaps mean nothing..girl its 2016!! Like Aaliyah said (may her soul rest in peace) age aint nothing but a number. What you should do to combat your low vibratory feelings is imagine this man being head over heels for you. He cant get enough. How does that feel? Good? Good! Stay in those emotions when you focus on him.

ChaliceSnowFlower wrote:

Sagit88 wrote:

Feelings of inferiority and doubt and fear will manifest more of its kind. A seed grows after its own kind. Age gaps mean nothing..girl its 2016!! Like Aaliyah said (may her soul rest in peace) age aint nothing but a number. What you should do to combat your low vibratory feelings is imagine this man being head over heels for you. He cant get enough. How does that feel? Good? Good! Stay in those emotions when you focus on him.

Great advice Sagit88. In my case age counts. I can't be in a relationship with someone younger or older than me by five years. I have very specific needs. One being having someone to grow young with.

Take for instance I met a guy in his 60's with 18 kids and 17 baby mamas. I talked about him once here before. He was deeply interested in me. My interest in him was zero. I don't want a man with kids. Although my stance on this is not as strong as it used to be. He can have one maybe two. And with this guy he had already traveled all around the world. He had no interest in doing this anymore. That is a big no no for me. I haven't seen the world yet. And I want to hook up with a guy who will be open to traveling. And that might be a bit difficult if he is tied to nine to five job. Just another deal breaker. Okay I am getting off topic.

So sorry Sagit88 I can't be with a man of a certain age because they are certain activities I expect us to do together as a couple. I know there are girls barely into their twenties who say they love older men in their 50's and 60's. If that works for them, then that is cool. But not in Shana's world.

I love Aaliyah by the way. I still don't believe that she is gone.

Gorgeous Lucky Bitch,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

I feel you! I feel the same way! I cant date more than 5 years older Ill never date a younger man, gross lol. Men and young are not a good combination. The only one that is gonna be youthful is me. My bf is 4.5 years older than me.

Its a to each its own kind of thing. I just said that above because its not a stigma to date whoever you want...its 2016!

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ChaliceSnowFlower wrote:

Sagit88 wrote:

I feel you! I feel the same way! I cant date more than 5 years older Ill never date a younger man, gross lol. Men and young are not a good combination. The only one that is gonna be youthful is me. My bf is 4.5 years older than me.

Its a to each its own kind of thing. I just said that above because its not a stigma to date whoever you want...its 2016!

Younger for you equals gross. Girl you crazy. LOL

Gorgeous Lucky Bitch,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

Maybe bc Im young. Idk. Young men are not mature enough to me. But its a matter of perspective a young guy for me would be like 23. Its all relative. 23 year old is not on my level.

That throws the young hot stud stereotype out the window 😩😜