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7/26/2016 8:32 am  #71


Re: Challenge: Changing Beliefs about Men

Amazonne wrote:

Ladies, this is really starting to work. If I'm honest, there isn't a guy that I'm entirely invested in/convinced of, so I've been focusing on just men in general. So the man in charge of our Design Project took us for a few lectures last semester, and most of us hated him. Very typical ignorant old white man- and the more I saw his sexism, the angrier I got. Yesterday, I thought "okay, I can be prepared for the worst, or I can believe he's a really good man who treats all students equally, regardless of x,x and x..."

Ladies, yesterday was AWESOME! He shared all his humanitarian views with us, we saw how much he really gives back to communities. He made an effort to learn our names. When I asked him a question he really appreciated it, and he complimented our entire group (all girls) for our work ethic. Even my friends who'd been complaining about him admitted that "he means well" even though they don't like his personality.

WE CAN CHANGE OUR WORLDS, GALS!

 
Yes!!! Thanks for sharing


Blessed Is She Who Believed

7/27/2016 6:33 am  #72


Re: Challenge: Changing Beliefs about Men

This is really powerful it really works 

7/27/2016 8:59 am  #73


Re: Challenge: Changing Beliefs about Men

Day 6

Men love, worship and revere me. 

I believe men are good. I believe men are honest. I trust men. I see their beauty. I believe men are understanding. I love men and men love me. 
I forgive all the men in my life who have hurt me. All the men in my life who I have hurt forgive me. I forgive myself for my mistakes. I send love, light and joy. 
The men I have sex with love and adore me. Sex brings us even closer and expands our vulnerability to each other and deepens our bond.
Men protect me and value what I have to say. 
Men desire loving, fulfilling and committed  relationships with me. 
Men provide for me and support me. 
Men are good. Men love, respect, honor, and revere me. 

7/27/2016 9:34 am  #74


Re: Challenge: Changing Beliefs about Men

Day 16
Men love worship and revere me
I forgive all men. I send them love light and joy
I believe men are good. I see their good I believe men are honest I trust men I see their beauty I love men and men love me
The men I chose to have sex with loves and adores me. Sex brings us even closer


Blessed Is She Who Believed

7/27/2016 12:15 pm  #75


Re: Challenge: Changing Beliefs about Men

Day 16
Men love, worship and revere me
The men I am sexual with adore me, and sex brings us even closer together
Men are good and they want to do good
Men value what I have to say
I forgive all the men from my past.

     Thread Starter

7/27/2016 4:24 pm  #76


Re: Challenge: Changing Beliefs about Men

Men are good, they love, respect and revere me.
Any man I choose to be intimate with loves and adores me and the intimacy shared brings us closer and deepens our bond.
Men want loving, committed and fulfilling relationships.
Men respect and value what I have to say.
I forgive all the men in my past who have caused me pain.

I send peace, love and joy to my fellow human beings.

7/27/2016 10:40 pm  #77


Re: Challenge: Changing Beliefs about Men

Hey, I just have to share something that I didn't have time to yesterday.

Now, I have a lot of guys with whom things ended badly. A guy from India that I'd met on Tinder, for example. We'd had awesome chats, but then when things got kinda sexual, they just continued being that way, and I felt that that was all he wanted. Like he was just trying to get me to send nudes at a point where I wasn't comfortable with it (I barely knew the guy!) So, I ended things with him (it didn't seem like he was interested in talking/FaceTime-ing) and said "I just don't feel like you're interested in me, as a person." He wasn't happy, to say the least, but I rolled my eyes, complained to my friends about him, and moved on.
I archived the chat, and sometimes when I'd see it pop up I'd think "How cool would it be if he contacted me again?" Sometimes I felt like I knew he would, other times I thought "he's such a charmer, he definitely has someone else now." But I PW'd him, imagined him saying he was sorry and really wants to get to know me, etc. Not on a schedule, just every time he popped into my mind.

Wellllll... yesterday in class he sent me a message! This is from APRIL that things ended! I was really mean to him at first, and accused him of just wanting sex. He said "see, you always assumed that about me. I really wanted to FaceTime with you but you just disappeared because you think that's all I want." At this point I realized: The Universe is giving me the *perfect* opportunity to decide the belief I want to have about men. I could decide he's lying, or I could decide he's being genuine. So I picked the latter and now we're back to chatting! He's not *the* guy I want, but it's great proof that my world is shifting. By deciding that men want love, and that they respect me, I'm getting more and more signs each day.

I'm getting male feminists following me on Twitter, which is absolutely amazing, seeing as Twitter was the place that decreased my faith in men. But there they are, defending women, defending women of COLOUR too. And the one is really attractive  It's amazing.

This is a great thing we're doing, ladies. And I feel like this guy marks the start of amazing returns into my love life ;)

Have a lovely day, beautifuls xx

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7/28/2016 7:06 am  #78


Re: Challenge: Changing Beliefs about Men

Thanks for sharing that story Amazonne.  It gives me hope.  Keep us posted with your adventures. 

Men are good, they love, respect and revere me.
Any man I choose to be intimate with loves and adores me and the intimacy shared brings us closer and deepens our bond.
Men want loving, committed and fulfilling relationships.
Men respect and value what I have to say.
I forgive all the men in my past who have caused me pain.

I send peace, love and joy to my fellow human beings.

7/28/2016 1:43 pm  #79


Re: Challenge: Changing Beliefs about Men

Day 17
Men love worship and revere me
I forgive all men. I send them love light and joy
I believe men are good, I believe men are honest, I believe men are beautiful I see their beauty, I love men and they love me
Men I chose to have Sex  With loves, adores and worship me and sex brings us closer


Blessed Is She Who Believed

7/28/2016 6:17 pm  #80


Re: Challenge: Changing Beliefs about Men

Day 7

Men love, worship and revere me. 

I believe men are good. I believe men are honest. I trust men. I see their beauty. I believe men are understanding. I love men and men love me. 
I forgive all the men in my life who have hurt me. All the men in my life who I have hurt forgive me. I forgive myself for my mistakes. I send love, light and joy. 
The men I have sex with love and adore me. Sex brings us even closer and expands our vulnerability to each other and deepens our bond.
Men protect me and value what I have to say. 
Men desire loving, fulfilling and committed  relationships with me. 
Men provide for me and support me. 
Men are good. Men love, respect, honor, and revere me.

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