Jim Chien Beige wrote:

My man was contacting me all week. Last week and all the time. Last night I went to one of his friends house cause there was a little party.
He called me 3 times yesterday.
I went to the party and he was talking with this girl, and I found out that they will go out. Like on a date.
I don't understand anything.
My heart is broken again.

Going out on a date =/= spending life with that person (;
Please remember that. Do not give up.

As a man I would not contact a girl three times a day like that, nor would I be contacting a girl "all week", had I not been interested in them. Look at the positives.
 

Last edited by ThisIsMyUsername (7/31/2016 9:24 pm)

ThisIsMyUsername wrote:

Jim Chien Beige wrote:

My man was contacting me all week. Last week and all the time. Last night I went to one of his friends house cause there was a little party.
He called me 3 times yesterday.
I went to the party and he was talking with this girl, and I found out that they will go out. Like on a date.
I don't understand anything.
My heart is broken again.

Going out on a date =/= spending life with that person (;
Please remember that. Do not give up.
 

 
He is moving on and I'm stuck. He sent me mixed signals all the time. I was doing great, I was trusting the process, and things were looking great. And now this.
He forgot about me, but he kept contacting me.
How do I visualize a solution when I see this reality?

Hi JCB,
i'm so sorry to hear this  (depressed). I really dont have any advice for you right now, as im kind of floored by this.

*Hugs*

Jim Chien Beige wrote:

ThisIsMyUsername wrote:

Jim Chien Beige wrote:

My man was contacting me all week. Last week and all the time. Last night I went to one of his friends house cause there was a little party.
He called me 3 times yesterday.
I went to the party and he was talking with this girl, and I found out that they will go out. Like on a date.
I don't understand anything.
My heart is broken again.

Going out on a date =/= spending life with that person (;
Please remember that. Do not give up.

As a man I would not contact a girl three times a day like that, nor would I be contacting a girl "all week", had I not been interested in them. Look at the positives.
 

 
Since we broke up, he contacted me. Always. And now this.
Also, he told a friend that he doesn't want anything to do with me.
I really don't get it.

When did he say he wants nothing to do with you? Was it after he was flirting with the girl? Then it is a simple "pft" moment. He'll be back.
Was it before? Then why is he contacting you so much? He obviously does not mean it. Either that or the technique is working in your favour. Just keep trying.

Jim Chien Beige wrote:

ThisIsMyUsername wrote:

Jim Chien Beige wrote:

 
Since we broke up, he contacted me. Always. And now this.
Also, he told a friend that he doesn't want anything to do with me.
I really don't get it.

When did he say he wants nothing to do with you? Was it after he was flirting with the girl? Then it is a simple "pft" moment. He'll be back.
Was it before? Then why is he contacting you so much? He obviously does not mean it. Either that or the technique is working in your favour. Just keep trying.

 
I don't know when but it was before this girl.
What should I do? I'm writing a letter for closure. He has to know that he hurt me. And he owes me money and I want it back.

Ehh. Not sure that is the best way to go about this. 
He said it before this girl, and yet, he keeps calling you?
He is obviously in denial. He does have feelings for you. Can't you see this? I may not know the entire story, however, from what you say, there has got to be something there.