Lanie Stevens wrote:

BellaLupa wrote:

Thank you for sharing in my gratitude about this, guys. It really makes me feel good and I don't really have people in my day-to-day who can appreciate the LoA aspect of it. 

I was long LOOOOOOOONG overdue to make these changes for myself and stop relying on the man I'm with to make me feel secure and happy. I'm sick of letting baggage and PTSD from my abusive past ruin my present. This man may have inspired me to kick my own butt to not sabotage myself anymore, but this is all for ME. I hope he's ready to be surprised and proven wrong.

Ladies, I cannot stress this enough. Performing the technique can do amazing stuff for our lives but if we're not LIVING and SPEAKING and FEELING in a manner consistent with those goals, it ain't gonna work out overall.

I am so proud of you and happy for your success.  Just a word of caution -- do not allow yourself to regress and if you feel it happening immediately do the "Cutting the Cord" meditation.  Also, if you feel out of control DO NOT have contact with him until you are composed.  You can do it!  All of your sisters on the forum are cheering for you!  xoxoxxoo

Thank you SO much, Lanie. I owe you a huge debt of gratitude. I refuse to screw this up. I know he's going to need more time and space to himself than I'm used to so that he can feel confident in trusting me, so I know I have a challenge ahead to not freak out, obsess, or worry. I'll still be using the meditations daily, followed with Cutting the Cord. One question, though: the verbiage used in the mp3 says stuff about disconnecting that person from your life. I don't need to worry about it accidentally pushing him out of my life or damaging our connection in this way, do I?

THIS IS AMAZING! Dayyyum, girl! 

Manifest like a Boss!!  Congrats on your success!! 

Congratulations! I wish you the best and I'm positive you have a bright future ahead of you. Changing one's mindset from negative to positive is so important.

Brooklyn wrote:

BellaLupa wrote:

I'll still be using the meditations daily, followed with Cutting the Cord. One question, though: the verbiage used in the mp3 says stuff about disconnecting that person from your life. I don't need to worry about it accidentally pushing him out of my life or damaging our connection in this way, do I?

I was wondering about this too. I don't want to get rid of him. I just want to feel in control, not needy, when we talk or see each other.

I also wanted to know if there's any particular order. II usually do Cutting the Cord then PW or BWD. 

Brooklyn, check out the post I made today. Do cutting the cord. ;)