Thank you, Thank you, Thank you.   I needed to read these words this morning. 

Wow👏🏼❤️ Another amazing post, Faith thank you so much!

Thank you so much for this topic, faith!!! You're the best! 😘

It's really quite confusing though. Many LOA teachers tell us that we should detach from our desire in order to manifest it, best to forget about it completely and let it go. And on the other hand you should do your affirmations, visualizations, work on vision board daily... I always thought there to be a contradiction (still do sometimes) but I'm beginning to feel that by doing the exercises daily it's not about reminding universe of our desires and asking where it is... It's about ourselves getting into the state of really feeling our wish fulfilled. Am I right? But there also is the catch, if we practice our techniques regularly feeling impatient and all, I think they can really backfire.

Faith wrote:

I started this topic after reading Kscmack question about detachment in a thread. I could have posted there but I guess lot of new members have this confusion about DETACHMENT & LETTING GO, so I'm starting a separate thread for it & other members are also invited to clarify if they have different views on it.😊
I'm extremely sorry if same topic has created before...😊


Lot of people are scared to let go because they think letting go means forget the desire or their love. So FIRST you need to understand, ALL OF YOU, that LETTING GO doesn't mean to forget your desire, so you don't have to be fearful about it.

LETTING GO simply means LET GO OF ALL YOUR WORRIES, FEAR OR ANY NEGATIVE THOUGHTS/EMOTIONS which is holding you back. These negative thoughts hinder your progress and create delay in your manifestation. When you go out for lunch, you place your order & sit there comfortably knowing that order will be at your table soon. You don't run to them to know if they're preparing your food or not, you don't question them how would they prepare it or if they could do that in time..😜... You don't doubt on their abilities, you don't leave the restaurant just by assuming that 'oh you can't have your order'...Do you?
OFCOURSE NOT. Because you know you have placed your order for which you're paying too & Now it's their responsibility to deliver your order. Similarly, when you PLACE YOUR DESIRE, you should not get upset, you should not let your doubts creep in because it hinders your progress.

When you visualize your desire either as PW/BWD or other scenarios, you feel it inside first, Right?
You feel it as it has already come true and you're living it in present. For eg : you want to attract a Mate. You visualize every night that you're married to your dream partner & enjoying your life with them....this is END RESULT. You're living your desire through visualization & you feel it SO REAL, you FEEL STRONG EMOTIONS OF JOY, HAPPINESS that your SUBCONCIOUS considers it true. It doesn't argue further because it is feeling the satisfaction already of having the MATE for which it was craving for. It doesn't feel lack anymore because it is feeling all those TRUE EMOTIONS RIGHT NOW which will be felt by it in future. So you would also feel satisfaction of WISH-FULLFILLED. You no longer seek signs & crave for your desire because you're already SATISFIED, knowing it's coming. You already know how it would feel. You already have enjoyed those moments in your visualization so you feel immense love for your Mate. You feel loved by your Mate. You feel CONFIDENT, LOVE, & SATISFACTION... So you focus on yourself. You enjoy your life, you enjoy your work & get busy in that. You don't think about your Mate all the time because you're already satisfied. THAT IS DETACHMENT.

For eg : See how kids behave all the time. They want something & keep telling to everyone that what they would do after having that particular thing. They don't hide their excitement because they already have plans for their desire and they feel it inside first. I have a cute little nephew. He tells me what he wants on Christmas or on his Birthday. Everytime I visit them, he tells me his plans that what he would do after getting that particular toy 😊 and he always manifests it lol. He doesn't sit and keeps thinking about it all the time instead he plays, he watches his favorite cartoons & gets busy..you know kids, they always find something to keep them occupied lol. THAT IS DETACHMENT. They want it, but they don't dwell upon it.

DETACHMENT is higher emotion but attachment comes with lower emotions. If their actions affecting you, you're attached. Your happiness shouldn't depend on them...if they talk to you, you get happy...if they don't... You become sad...NO.
Don't do that. Remember how you both met? How you both attracted towards each other? Before meeting them, were you thinking 'oh what he's doing, oh he hasn't called me up yet?' ....OFCOURSE NOT. You were enjoying your life. YOU WERE DETACHED. When you had your first date, you were so happy and did your best to look great & sexy. You were not sad at all, instead you were imagining your good moments with him, you were imagining his first touch, his smile and spending time together. THIS WAS DETACHMENT. This detachment created passion between you & you both attracted towards each other.

Then after few months, you began to overanalyze things, you overanalyze his every action & words. He meets you, you get Happy...he doesn't talk, you become sad. THAT IS ATTACHMENT. This attachment sends wrong signals. They can sense your desperation subconsciously & it cause them to run from you. Keep ringing someone for hours, they won't never call you back...keep asking same question to someone, after few minutes...they would try to run...because nobody wants to be around someone like that.

ONE IMPORTANT THING : WHATEVER YOU THINK, IDEAS FOR BUSINESS, THOUGHTS ABOUT YOUR LOVE, YOUR CAR, ANYTHING...IT ALWAYS PICKS UP BY SOMEONE ELSE AS YOU PICK UP SOMEONE'S THOUGHTS OR IDEAS. We mentally affect each others either intentionally or unintentionally... Either you know about PW/BWD or not. The only difference is if we know the technique, we can use it in our favour. So if you're thinking in negative way about your love, they're picking it subconsciously & they will get distant from you if you keep thinking that way.
But if you think about them in positive way like thinking about your good times with them, they will also pick that too & come closer to you. So better thinking in a positive way instead of thinking negatively.😊

We are here to LEARN DETACHMENT. We go through many relationships & face the same issues over & over again because we don't learn DETACHMENT. We are here because we are too sensitive, emotional & soft- hearted. I have seen lot of people who don't practice LOA but still they attract everything in their life because they already know how to detach...selfish & careless people (no offense) are very good attracting things quickly. So LEARN DETACHMENT.
Simple way is...do visualization, feel it real inside and find something which can make you occupied for hours that you don't get time to think about your desire.


To understand it correctly Go through some NEVILLE'S book. Nothing is better than that. If you read other books, it would just create more confusions on your side. So I suggest read some books of Neville's.

 
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