Yes it does Avaelle - there's nothing worse than feeling obsessed over someone or something. I had forgotten what that had felt like as I felt I'd come a long way until the spell lol! It's powerful alright.
So I did the third casting last night. I was slightly later than normal and went to sleep straight after. I meant to CTC but was too tired...and a bit tipsy! Well, I woke up this morning feeling absolutely fine. Better than fine actually - just detached, calm and perfectly normal. My thoughts of him have decreased in intensity. Now I just think of him in a happy relaxed way. Like I did before I started the spell... I am amazed at its power to be honest. I was expecting good things but didn't expect to actually feel the effects.
I'm guessing Lanie was right about me feeling his thoughts. I think he was overwhelmed (like I was feeling) and very confused the first week and the start of the second. As time has gone on, he may have got used to it and is now accepting it. Well I hope so at least! I feel detached from the outcome once again which is good, and have just found out that I have a new job to focus on. Yay!
Last cast tomorrow night!
J