Lanie Stevens "Empowering Women" - http://laniestevens.com / Trying to manifest ex, also should I send him a message?

**Posted by abedele** 9/17/2018 2:11 pm

My guy broke up with me after 6 months together, telling me that he's not sure of his feelings. I was devestated but determined to get him back. I have never felt like this for any other guys, I feel that we belong together. The break up was 3 weeks ago, and we've had no contact ever since. I have been using Agnes Vivarelli's self love, whispering, manifesting ex techniques and Eric Ho's manifest text techniques sinceand recently bought PW and BWD. Tried it for two days and I really felt a connection during the meditations. And recently I have had a strong gut feeling that he will come back to me soon and I also dream about him regularly and seeing repeating numbers. He also started to watch my snapstories, which he didnt do the first two weeks after our break up. Not sure if its because I still have feelings for him and cant let him go or because of LOA.At the same time I try to stay happy, I know I can still live a happy life without him, but I'm so in love with this guy.

However, his birthday is coming up next week, and I'm thinking if I should message him just happy birthday??

Or will breaking no contact backfire?

Last edited by abedele (9/17/2018 2:12 pm)

**Posted by SecretPrincess007** 9/17/2018 3:41 pm

Nope. Resist the urge.
Perhaps others here disagree.
I would not send him a thing. The idea is that he is led to come to YOU, not vice versa.

**Posted by annabelle** 9/17/2018 4:13 pm

I agree. I am devastated that mine still hasn't connected. I am old enough to know better. But nope...No texting. No matter how well intentioned. Thanks for the reminder.

**Posted by ChaliceSnowFlower** 9/17/2018 5:14 pm

DO NOT BREAK NO CONTACT.

**Posted by Angelfire** 9/17/2018 10:29 pm

I would not contact him. Figuring the urge to make contact can be the hardest part of manifesting him back.

**Posted by manifesting145** 11/19/2018 7:04 am

Agree. DO NOT EVER contact him. You need to be at least in the neutral state in order to influence your loved one, and that means you have to take a step back and never, ever contact him.

**Posted by Piper** 11/19/2018 2:48 pm

I guess I am the one who will disagree - not for all, but there are cases of inspired action. I am also not a big fan of no contact, but it depends on the situation.

**Posted by Angel89** 11/20/2018 9:01 am

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**Posted by DianneP** 12/12/2018 9:24 am

Make him come to you and make him miss you even more. Just let him be, let him watch your snapstories, bring your A-game using the Law of Attraction to lure him in. Hahhahaha talk about girl power