Hi Lulu11 welcome, this sub forum that you have posted your question in is for "success stories".
For the new or not so new members, can you please take the time to navigate the forum and look through the various threads or do a search for the issue / technique you are interested in or experiencing. if you still cant find your answer either ask the question on Thread for newbies
http://laniestevensforum.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=1153
or the POST your questions here sub forum.
This forum was established about 1 year ago and there is a mine of advice and experiences, you just need to take the time to read through it.
Thanks.
All advice given is intended in the best interest of whomever I may be replying to & my opinions may not necessarily reflect those of the wider community on the forum.