age0fconsent wrote:

Hello ladies,

I am very new to this forum but have read 2 of Lanie's books and am currently on my 3rd. I'm hoping I can get some help, insight, advice, anything you think could help my situation.

I have been separated from my SP (we were together and have spoken about marriage before) for a few months now. Things have been rocky and he insists he can't seem to forget the past (bad breakup).

I've been using Lanies techniques before bed and before getting up for my day, and I after a week or two he showed up at my house stating that he loved me and missed me a lot. So I always get him to let me know how he feels, I always attract and manifest him back, but I can't ever seem to get him to stay...

I love him dearly and I understand that I have to be patient in order to get back to a place where he can trust being in a relationship again but its just been hard because I'll get him back, but he leaves and it just feels pretty terrible.

Nonetheless, we're back to NC (its been about a week) and I'm focusing on myself again.

Any advice ladies, would be so incredibly help

thanks again

You need to analyze your beliefs about him and the relationship and change them accordingly. He is projecting back to you what you believe of him. For example, he won't commit to you because you don't believe he will or is committed to you. Change it

age0fconsent wrote:

Piper wrote:

age0fconsent wrote:

Hello ladies,

I am very new to this forum but have read 2 of Lanie's books and am currently on my 3rd. I'm hoping I can get some help, insight, advice, anything you think could help my situation.

I have been separated from my SP (we were together and have spoken about marriage before) for a few months now. Things have been rocky and he insists he can't seem to forget the past (bad breakup).

I've been using Lanies techniques before bed and before getting up for my day, and I after a week or two he showed up at my house stating that he loved me and missed me a lot. So I always get him to let me know how he feels, I always attract and manifest him back, but I can't ever seem to get him to stay...

I love him dearly and I understand that I have to be patient in order to get back to a place where he can trust being in a relationship again but its just been hard because I'll get him back, but he leaves and it just feels pretty terrible.

Nonetheless, we're back to NC (its been about a week) and I'm focusing on myself again.

Any advice ladies, would be so incredibly help

thanks again

You need to analyze your beliefs about him and the relationship and change them accordingly. He is projecting back to you what you believe of him. For example, he won't commit to you because you don't believe he will or is committed to you. Change it

Hey Piper,

I never thought of that. You're right, I need to fix up my beliefs cause they're pretty doubtful right now. 

 
Piper, how do you suggest changing a belief like that? I think this is completely true, and I am in agreement.  I am just wondering how do you change the belief and clear resistance and manifest what you are truly wanting? Especially if it is a deeply ingrained belief and/or possibly a pattern in a current relationship that has possibly become the norm or even an expectation.

Moonbeam2018 wrote:

age0fconsent wrote:

Piper wrote:

You need to analyze your beliefs about him and the relationship and change them accordingly. He is projecting back to you what you believe of him. For example, he won't commit to you because you don't believe he will or is committed to you. Change it

Hey Piper,

I never thought of that. You're right, I need to fix up my beliefs cause they're pretty doubtful right now. 

 
Piper, how do you suggest changing a belief like that? I think this is completely true, and I am in agreement.  I am just wondering how do you change the belief and clear resistance and manifest what you are truly wanting? Especially if it is a deeply ingrained belief and/or possibly a pattern in a current relationship that has possibly become the norm or even an expectation.

I follow Neville Goddard, and so I practice the techniques that he talks about it all of his books/lectures, but there are several ways to override a belief. I just do meditation, while looping my desired scene, and this does wonders. I don't believe in resistance because all that is, is a result of your limiting beliefs.