Lanie Stevens "Empowering Women" - http://laniestevens.com / rs technique tips

**Posted by donna89** 2/06/2017 12:02 pm

I recently bought lanies books and started practicing the techniques been doing it now for 2 weeks i have to say i do enjoy doing it gives me faith. but after joining this forum recently ive read about a few different ways people are doing the techniques and i wondered if im doing mine the right way. i want him to message me and us get back together ive been visualizing him saying im going to message you etc, however i saw some people said you whisper it in their ear of what you want them to say to you eg - message me you love me etc . what is the right way for my messages to get across to him - for him to be sayin it to me in my viusualization or for me to be saying it to him - much advice and tips would be appreciated thankyou girlies x

**Posted by Blue** 2/06/2017 12:03 pm

You can do either. Him whispering or saying it out loud, there is no wrong way to do it.

**Posted by donna89** 2/06/2017 12:11 pm

Blue wrote:
You can do either. Him whispering or saying it out loud, there is no wrong way to do it.

thanks and do i whisper it in his ear eg call donna today or is it better for him to say i will call you donna today - lol hope that makes sense if you know what i mean

**Posted by Blue** 2/06/2017 12:13 pm

It doesn't matter. As long as you believe and let go.

**Posted by January** 2/06/2017 12:37 pm

donna89 wrote:
Blue wrote:
You can do either. Him whispering or saying it out loud, there is no wrong way to do it.
thanks and do i whisper it in his ear eg call donna today or is it better for him to say i will call you donna today - lol hope that makes sense if you know what i mean

I often visualize my guy holding me and whispering in my ear or me whispering in his ear back to him when I am telling him that I love him and forgive him.

But I thought that we weren't supposed to tell him to call us? Can someone clarify that one?

**Posted by Indigo** 2/06/2017 1:40 pm

January wrote:
donna89 wrote:
Blue wrote:
You can do either. Him whispering or saying it out loud, there is no wrong way to do it.
thanks and do i whisper it in his ear eg call donna today or is it better for him to say i will call you donna today - lol hope that makes sense if you know what i mean
I often visualize my guy holding me and whispering in my ear or me whispering in his ear back to him when I am telling him that I love him and forgive him.

But I thought that we weren't supposed to tell him to call us? Can someone clarify that one?

You ladies can visualize and manifest whatever you choose. But if you are striving for a life-long
relationship then why would you meditate on a phone call or a text? If he is in love with you, he is
going to do all of those things anyway.

**Posted by January** 2/06/2017 7:43 pm

You ladies can visualize and manifest whatever you choose. But if you are striving for a life-long
relationship then why would you meditate on a phone call or a text? If he is in love with you, he is
going to do all of those things anyway.

Valid point. For me, I go back and forth, depending on my day, kind of like, if I could just hear his voice or get a text.... kind of like being thrown a bone. But the end result is what I am after.

**Posted by Indigo** 2/06/2017 9:16 pm

January wrote:

Valid point. For me, I go back and forth, depending on my day, kind of like, if I could just hear his voice or get a text.... kind of like being thrown a bone. But the end result is what I am after.

If you continue to do the PW visualizations, you will eventually be able to hear his voice.
It took a couple of months for me, but one day just before Christmas I was cleaning my
kitchen listening to the extended version of Donna Summer's Love To Love You Baby
and dancing around and suddenly I heard his voice just as clear as day professing his
love for me. Anyway, you manifest what it is that you desire and so I would go for
something more substantial than just a phone call.

**Posted by January** 2/06/2017 10:54 pm

If you continue to do the PW visualizations, you will eventually be able to hear his voice.
It took a couple of months for me, but one day just before Christmas I was cleaning my
kitchen listening to the extended version of Donna Summer's Love To Love You Baby
and dancing around and suddenly I heard his voice just as clear as day professing his
love for me. Anyway, you manifest what it is that you desire and so I would go for
something more substantial than just a phone call.

Thanks Indigo. I want it all. Not what we had before because that clearly didn't work. Not what he is right now, though I'm proud of some of the changes he's making even though I'm mad he isn't making them with me. But I want the 3.0 version. Or maybe 4.0. The point is, I deserve to have the complete relationship. Despite him being with someone else, I am sure he would take my call and even be friendly. I suspect he's surprised that I haven't reached out to him yet because I usually did before. I'll wait until he contacts me.

**Posted by Evey2222** 2/07/2017 7:35 am

Indigo wrote:
January wrote:
donna89 wrote:

thanks and do i whisper it in his ear eg call donna today or is it better for him to say i will call you donna today - lol hope that makes sense if you know what i mean
I often visualize my guy holding me and whispering in my ear or me whispering in his ear back to him when I am telling him that I love him and forgive him.

But I thought that we weren't supposed to tell him to call us? Can someone clarify that one?



You ladies can visualize and manifest whatever you choose. But if you are striving for a life-long
relationship then why would you meditate on a phone call or a text? If he is in love with you, he is
going to do all of those things anyway.

I think that is why I haven't heard from A yet, because instead of focusing on just a text or contact i am whispering and visualising the whole new relationship and him wanting me back. Well I hope thats the reason anyway haha xx