Lanie Stevens "Empowering Women" - http://laniestevens.com / One step forward and two back

**Posted by daisychain** 2/20/2017 8:34 am

Having gone from the odd hey how are you message since October last year to an amazing conversation at the end of January where he spoke for ages and even mentioned saving for his visa and me jokingly saying come to my country with him replying yes I was thinking about that, I want to see there more than anything. I got a hey on valentines day but we are now back to the odd hey how are you which ends with him ignoring my message.

I haven't been doing as much PW, BWD etc on him as I used to, I have really scaled it back but have done two parts of the 3 week love spells. Could this be my PW etc hitting him and that's why he's pulling away again?

I've been practically buzzing with knowing he's coming back for a few months now with the odd off day but today for some reason i'm feeling quite low and try as I am I can't seem to pull myself up and feel like I'm fed up and tired of this yo-yoing!

Sorry everyone, i'm just having a moan and a vent and have no-one else to vent too. Heading off to the gym tonight to work through some of my frustrations and I will be back to myself in no time!

**Posted by Avaelle** 2/20/2017 10:01 am

From what I read, it could be freaking him out. PW AND Love Spell would hit him pretty strong.

**Posted by daisychain** 2/20/2017 10:17 am

Avaelle wrote:
From what I read, it could be freaking him out. PW AND Love Spell would hit him pretty strong.

I thought it could be that but didn't want to get my hopes up if you know what I mean! I have no way of knowing as he's in another country so can only go by our messages. He isn't hiding being online and has actually been offline for a day or so at a time a lot lately. I genuinely thought things were getting better in our communication but now feels like it's taken a step back this past week, apart from the hey he sent on valentine's day, which I think was in response to a message I sent on Sunday.

Any advice on what to do Avaelle? Should I carry on with love spells etc?

**Posted by Avaelle** 2/20/2017 10:36 am

daisychain wrote:
Avaelle wrote:
From what I read, it could be freaking him out. PW AND Love Spell would hit him pretty strong.
I thought it could be that but didn't want to get my hopes up if you know what I mean! I have no way of knowing as he's in another country so can only go by our messages. He isn't hiding being online and has actually been offline for a day or so at a time a lot lately. I genuinely thought things were getting better in our communication but now feels like it's taken a step back this past week, apart from the hey he sent on valentine's day, which I think was in response to a message I sent on Sunday.

Any advice on what to do Avaelle? Should I carry on with love spells etc?

Are you doing the Love Spells from Lanie's Manifesting Love? If so, I'd stick to that schedule and to take Lanie's advice to not overdo it.

**Posted by Blue** 2/20/2017 10:48 am

Do the love spells and in between do PW and send him love. Don't do the spell more than Lanie suggests because as she said - more is NOT better and you will freak him out.

**Posted by daisychain** 2/20/2017 10:51 am

Yeah I done one love spell last week and another last night, so technically only the last week one since I sent him my last message (which he eventually read and didn't reply too) it was a funny video for a TV programme he got me into. I was going to leave doing the third love spell until Wednesday. Not sure if I should hold off the PW and just do the love spells for now!

**Posted by daisychain** 2/20/2017 11:14 am

Blue wrote:
Do the love spells and in between do PW and send him love. Don't do the spell more than Lanie suggests because as she said - more is NOT better and you will freak him out.

Thanks Blue. So do love spells and PW in between. I have only done the spell twice and was going to leave my third one until Wednesday and then carry on as Lanie advises with it. I wonder if he is freaking out, it's hard to tell as he's never shown in our messages any indication of things feeling different for him, as in any of this hitting him!

**Posted by Avaelle** 2/20/2017 11:15 am

Based on this, I think you should relax. It sounds like you are doing plenty and are not over doing it. It's working. From my experience, I've seen that the PW can come across to them so strong that they do block you or draw back for a bit.

**Posted by Avaelle** 2/20/2017 11:18 am

daisychain wrote:
Blue wrote:
Do the love spells and in between do PW and send him love. Don't do the spell more than Lanie suggests because as she said - more is NOT better and you will freak him out.

Thanks Blue. So do love spells and PW in between. I have only done the spell twice and was going to leave my third one until Wednesday and then carry on as Lanie advises with it. I wonder if he is freaking out, it's hard to tell as he's never shown in our messages any indication of things feeling different for him, as in any of this hitting him!

I'm curious as to why you aren't just following the Love Spell schedule? I started this week and have it planned to do them as advised.

**Posted by Blue** 2/20/2017 11:23 am

daisychain wrote:
Blue wrote:
Do the love spells and in between do PW and send him love. Don't do the spell more than Lanie suggests because as she said - more is NOT better and you will freak him out.

Thanks Blue. So do love spells and PW in between. I have only done the spell twice and was going to leave my third one until Wednesday and then carry on as Lanie advises with it. I wonder if he is freaking out, it's hard to tell as he's never shown in our messages any indication of things feeling different for him, as in any of this hitting him!

Just follow the schedule Lanie has in the book.

You need to not worry about how he's feeling and trust and believe that it works. She has even said in the book that the love will grow inside them and get stronger, even if they don't notice it right away - they will eventually. She said she's used this on John, her ex, as well as PW and he still - after all these years, has not gotten over her.