Lanie Stevens "Empowering Women" - http://laniestevens.com / Love spell made him distant?

**Posted by Justine** 3/19/2017 11:09 am

Glovergirl wrote:
I know Lanie shared in her book what her experience was like after someone used a love spell on her. I've also read about her experience in some of the posts on the forum. That will likely be a good indicator of how this shows up on the other end. It sounds intense! It's no surprise that folks are caught off guard and back away for a bit.

Haha ok. I'll try not to paranoï then

**Posted by kellykelly** 3/20/2017 7:36 am

i am trying hard to picture myself if i am at the receiving end of PW/BWD/spell.

if i am under a spell, wouldn't i simply be totally spellbound and rushing to the person in double quick time (with no questions asked) instead of retreating 'out of fear'? a spell can only draw/attract a person and not repell them right?

so i am finding it hard to be convinced that PW/BWD/spell is working because the POI is fearful of or overwhelmed by his feelings.

please enlighten me, i need all the encouragement i can get.

**Posted by Lj** 3/20/2017 7:58 am

kellykelly wrote:
i am trying hard to picture myself if i am at the receiving end of PW/BWD/spell.

if i am under a spell, wouldn't i simply be totally spellbound and rushing to the person in double quick time (with no questions asked) instead of retreating 'out of fear'? a spell can only draw/attract a person and not repell them right?

so i am finding it hard to be convinced that PW/BWD/spell is working because the POI is fearful of or overwhelmed by his feelings.

please enlighten me, i need all the encouragement i can get.

Guess it's because they find the new feelings scary and uncomfortable.
But like you, I would like to think that they would just come rushing towards the person they can't stop thinking about.

We've been apart for 6 months and silent for 4.
I would just like to get a tiny response from her now. Just a hello or something.
I do think doubt the techniques are working. But I can't help being a little concerned about her just pushing the feelings aside.
She's with this other guy, and as far as I know she's pretty faithful.
I wrote her an email a week ago. Probably shouldn't have. But I just wanted to tell her how I'm doing. Nothing about feelings. Just how happy I am.
I just wanted to have some kind of contact, even though I knew she wouldn't reply.
I'm happy without her and ready to meet someone else. But I'll prefer to get her back.
She's without a doubt in my mind, the love of my life. She has all the traits I want in a woman.

**Posted by Avaelle** 3/20/2017 8:04 am

kellykelly wrote:
i am trying hard to picture myself if i am at the receiving end of PW/BWD/spell.

if i am under a spell, wouldn't i simply be totally spellbound and rushing to the person in double quick time (with no questions asked) instead of retreating 'out of fear'? a spell can only draw/attract a person and not repell them right?

so i am finding it hard to be convinced that PW/BWD/spell is working because the POI is fearful of or overwhelmed by his feelings.

please enlighten me, i need all the encouragement i can get.

Think of it this way. It's called a spell, but we aren't hypnotizing anyone or putting them in any sorts of trances. They may be out shopping, working out or at work and suddenly feel the powerful love that you're sending to them.

Now, if I put myself into their shoes and it happened to me - I wouldn't be able to just suddenly overcome my slight shyness and run into the guy's arms. I would take time for me to figure out how to approach him.

**Posted by Justine** 3/20/2017 10:05 am

My guy and I were dating and he just disappeared without saying anything and he is not answering anymore. He seems to run away from me.

So if he reacts that way. Chances are an ex would too.

**Posted by Lj** 3/20/2017 10:30 am

Justine wrote:
My guy and I were dating and he just disappeared without saying anything and he is not answering anymore. He seems to run away from me.

So if he reacts that way. Chances are an ex would too.

Your still working on him, or have you given up?

**Posted by Justine** 3/20/2017 10:34 am

Lj wrote:
Justine wrote:
My guy and I were dating and he just disappeared without saying anything and he is not answering anymore. He seems to run away from me.

So if he reacts that way. Chances are an ex would too.
Your still working on him, or have you given up?

I started the spell a week ago. Did the first 3 sessions. He disappeared after the second one.
Gonna start week two in two days

**Posted by Avaelle** 3/20/2017 10:34 am

Justine wrote:
My guy and I were dating and he just disappeared without saying anything and he is not answering anymore. He seems to run away from me.

So if he reacts that way. Chances are an ex would too.

Actually, don't do that. All people aren't the same and you don't want to have that core belief. It'll have every guy you deal with reacting like that because that is the type of men you'll attract.

**Posted by Justine** 3/20/2017 11:07 am

Don't do what? Sorry I don't understand

I was replying to people who were worried about their ex not talking to them

**Posted by Avaelle** 3/20/2017 12:24 pm

Don't let a core belief form if it will slow down your desires