Lanie Stevens "Empowering Women" - http://laniestevens.com / Missed call

**Posted by Avaelle** 3/16/2017 10:40 am

Sushi wrote:
Still blocked from texting him thru FB messenger. He must not want to talk to me that badly.

? Don't pay attention to that. I'm blocked on some app too and I talk to my guy frequently.

**Posted by Indigo** 3/16/2017 10:45 am

Sushi wrote:
Still blocked from texting him thru FB messenger. He must not want to talk to me that badly.

Maybe he forgot he blocked you.
Maybe you have his mind messed up

(look at me making excuses for your man)

**Posted by Avaelle** 3/16/2017 11:00 am

Indigo wrote:
Sushi wrote:
Still blocked from texting him thru FB messenger. He must not want to talk to me that badly.



Maybe he forgot he blocked you.
Maybe you have his mind messed up

(look at me making excuses for your man)

Actually, I was thinking the same thing. Why would he be thinking or even remembering "she's blocked on messenger"? I honestly can't recall who I've blocked. I wouldn't think anything of it.

**Posted by Sushi** 3/16/2017 11:22 am

No, I'm certain he is well aware that I am still blocked on there. It was only 3 weeks ago and he did it intentionally to tick me off.

**Posted by Avaelle** 3/16/2017 12:27 pm

Any disappointment you feel because of this FB messenger situation is self inflicted. The man has called you. You have no idea why, his tone or urgency. You'll drawing up all of this doubt in your head based on FB messenger. You can call him back or torture yourself.

**Posted by Sushi** 3/16/2017 1:05 pm

No, I'm not feeling disappointed. It's not an emergency or he would have called more than once or tried a different number. He knows damn well that FB messenger is the easiest way to contact me. He also knows I'm not a morning person, and calling me at 8:30 in the morning is basically an "Eff you, I'll call you on my terms" from him. I'm not settling for scraps.

**Posted by Avaelle** 3/16/2017 1:39 pm

This just seemed like an upbeat post that was infectious to everyone that read it. Then, it is like it went left field. Just from the outside looking in it looks like you did everything that you should in order to maintain control and your dignity. It's not like you woke up and called him right back, it has been days. All of this other stuff just seems like assumptions to me or unneeded. At the time time, I don't know the background situation.