So I have a little bit of an Interestig experience. I met this man back in September and never thought it would be more than sex but we ended up having deeper feelings. He still had a past with another woman and wanted a relationship with her but he was also telling us he loved us at the same time. And while we  were “seeing” each other he would still see other women and lie to me. He didn’t treat me the best but there were sides I really loved and we had a connectiond I’m not ready to give up. He recently texted me telling me he couldn’t be friends with me right now because he didn’t want to hurt me anymore and that’s what he was doing. I agreed. I see him sometimes in the gym but I also told him I didn’t want small talk or anything  but that’s it otherwise no contact. I’m been doing RI on and off for a week or two. I think my obsession and anxiety is stopping it. When I see him in the gym he is more cold And like he doesn’t care at all. But I don’t know if that’s just his tough guy exterior. I need some advice ladies please help!