Posted by ChaliceSnowFlower 3/01/2018 9:13 am | #1 |
So yesterday I contacted her and asked if she was interested in doing an experiment to change her man’s behavior. I was not surprised when she said that she does not want to change him. Mind you they are sleeping in separate bedrooms and they have not been together for 2 years yet. Already he is clowning, talking and texting other women, in her presence to booth. You would THINK she would jump at the chance to change things around in HER favor.
To further piqued her curiosity I gave her two testimonials for How To Make Him Burn With Desire … Only For You from Amazon. I will post them below. She still said no and asked what does any of this has to do with her and her man. I just shook my head and told her I will find some other woman with a boyfriend who is willingly.
It is sad really that women prefer to suffer in silence over the pain that a man gives them. Then when the opportunity comes up to do something to turn things around where they can be happy for a change, they let it slip by them. I can’t and won’t force her to do it. What do you ladies think?
Here are the testimonials;
1. Ok first I wanna say I'm usually VERY skeptical of these type of self-help books, but this one intrigued me being that I've been certified in hypnotherapy yet have never really followed up or used it. I only use it when I can't sleep and I put myself to sleep with it. I'm a sexy mother of 6 including a set of twins and a registered nurse, but my marriage is in shambles. He actually moved out and I felt helpless, so I started searching for help when I stumbled upon these books of Lanie's. I tried the technique with my husband and although she says to give it 30 days, and it hasn't been that long yet, I started to get discouraged. I then read this second book where it says to try on a random guy. Last year I found out my husband was communicating with an ex of his behind my back. Of course I was livid, but on top of it all her SISTER came to her defense and cursed me, threatened me, and degraded me as if I was beneath them since my husband felt the need to deal with her sister. Well... that sister that cursed me has a boyfriend. I tried the technique on him although I've never met him in person, and he's added me on FB, IG, and SnapChat. He sends me pics ALL DAY asking me where have I been all of his life, telling me I'm just what he WANTS, and we STILL have never even met!!! Therefore, I'm CONVINCED that it was the technique used from this book that did that. I am very confident and believe my charisma attracts many of men, but to have THIS GUY come out of nowhere and be so SMITTEN without experiencing said charisma and only AFTER following the author's instructions is no coincidence!!
2. I have all Lanie's books and I wish I would've found them a lot sooner!!! Here's my story.
Eight months ago I was searching Amazon for books on relationship help. I needed help with my twenty year marriage that had gone downhill. At first when I saw the title I thought it was something completely different but when I started reading the first few pages I got this butterfly feeling in my gut I was so flipping excited and if it weren't for my husband being in the same room I would've been jumping up and down with excitement. I know about LOA and being able to use it for money and financial gain but to use it for your perfect relationship is another thing. I was more then elated upon reading it. I feel like I found PURE GOLD!! I couldn't even sleep the first night! I read and reread the book I even told my sister and my girlfriends about it!! I definitely knew I came upon something so special something completely different then any book I've ever read on the subject. Saying this book has completely changed my life is an understatement! Like I said my marriage of twenty years was in bad shape. We treated each other as friends more then husband and wife and sometimes not even that! We hardly had any physical contact and there were years we slept in different rooms of our house. I will always remember the first night reading the book and practicing the techniques Lanie suggested I do in the book. I was so gitty like a school girl anyway the next morning I felt a change I felt so happy and hopeful! I can honestly say I saw a change in him within a couple days he started acting more affectionate and since then our whole dynamic has changed since I've been using these techniques it's like he's a completely new man he's so loving and attentative to me now! He walks through the door from work and pulls me from whatever I'm doing to kiss me and then he tells me how that made his day and how he's so happy to be home with me! He used to come home from work and turn the tv on and barely say hi! He calls and text me every morning just to tell me how much he loves me and how beautiful I am and how he craves me! He does this moments after he leaves for work! I'm not exaggerating when I tell you he waits on me hand over foot but he really does! When I leave to go places without him he texts me telling me how much he misses me and he's counting the minutes till I come back home.😋 He's acting how he did when we first got together he was totally smitten with me he couldn't get enough and now he's acting the same way! Family and friends look at us now thinking what the heck happened here because you guys were on the verge of divorce and now you guys can't keep your hands away from eachother. Everytime we see each other I get butterflies in my tummy he has this look on face like he's the luckiest man on earth matter a fact he's told me that repeatedly! All I know ladies is that when I say I implore you to buy this book I mean I implore you too!! YOU WILL NOT REGRET IT!! Thank you Lanie Steven's for everything! I really appreciate you and your on going support to me and all our sisters out there!! You're a god send!!
Posted by Blue Deer 3/04/2018 5:56 am | #2 |
Hi there,
The short answer is that with Lanies methods, Neville Goddards methods, when we start to use them it requires taking responsibility for the good and the bad in our lives. Plenty of people don't want to do that.
They would rather stay there and blame someone.
It's not you, or the material. She's just not ready to hear it. 😊
Posted by ChaliceSnowFlower 3/05/2018 9:35 am | #4 |
Blue Deer wrote:
Hi there,
The short answer is that with Lanies methods, Neville Goddards methods, when we start to use them it requires taking responsibility for the good and the bad in our lives. Plenty of people don't want to do that.
They would rather stay there and blame someone.
It's not you, or the material. She's just not ready to hear it. 😊
I am not blaming myself. I just feel sad for her on one hand. It is her life. If she wants to keep sleeping in the next bedroom while he texting other women from his bedroom, that is her choice. I was shocked she got with him honestly because she already knew one woman is not enough for him.
Posted by ChaliceSnowFlower 3/05/2018 9:46 am | #5 |
eli-the-b0ss wrote:
I think people need to seek this stuff out on their own. I discovered LOA and Lanie and everything after I specifically asked the universe to show me how to get my POI back and making it clear that I was determined to do whatever it took. If someone had given me a copy of PW eight months ago i would have dismissed it as superstitious BS, but since I went out and looked for it I was ready to believe it when I found it. I've tried telling friends about it when they had relationship issues but they completely ignored it
It sad people can't see what you want them to see sometimes. You went and seek truth and you found out. Other people are resigned to the belief that this is ALL life has to offer them. This is why it is necessary to step in. But if they are not receptive, then I won't push the issue. Thanks for replying.
Posted by ChaliceSnowFlower 3/05/2018 2:32 pm | #6 |
hermeshorse wrote:
I'm wondering if your friend has ever manifested anything intentionally. Things like parking spots,discounts, last piece of cake or last magazine on the stand - just little things.
I know in my case I've used the LOA without knowing what it was before it was called the LOA and I manifested guys without really considering what I actually wanted. Didn't work out too well.
Having said that there have also been times where I've struggled through life and then had the lightbulb moment where I realised "I can manifest things - so why am I struggling here?"
I don't know if that may well be the case with your friend - start with something small and as she sees success build upon it. She needs to see the success for herself. It's not coincidence, I've learnt that and I keep revisiting LOA, this and other methods after let them wane off and forget how damned amazing and powerful I actually am.
This is a good suggestion. But she is not as open minded as I gave her credit for. So I am going to leave her alone.