Lanie Stevens "Empowering Women" - http://laniestevens.com / How to Claim Your Man With Your Mind

**Posted by Nutmeg** 7/18/2018 12:41 pm

I just got these meditations loaded onto my phone after having issues with the download. I did the creat By an energy field twice because the first time I think I either went into a really deep meditation or dozed off. Today, whenever I think of something we had been through I get a little depressed. Not sure if I am picking up his thoughts or emotions or my own. He does have a tendency to go through depressive states as he exhibit all the signs of having bipolar but he was never diagnosed. We have no contact as we live in different states. So I can’t see how anything I do is effecting him.

I happen to be an empath too. I have somewhat mastered blocking people’s emotions like people I work with but since I feel this guy and I are directly connected I think his just go right into me.

Last edited by Nutmeg (7/18/2018 12:48 pm)

**Posted by January** 7/30/2018 6:21 pm

I have been using this bundle the past few days. I experienced such a peace of mind doing the Claim your Mate meditation but since I have done the Repelling and Star meditations the past 2 days, I have felt so attached and anxious about my ex meeting someone else. Even though I KNOW that we are not done and he is mine. I even sent him a quick text today that I am still waiting for a response to. I have not been the one to contact him since we broke up as he was getting in touch with me every other day or so, even once giving me a lecture after he found out that I was going on a date. We have been broken up about a month. After that lecture, I feel like I have started obsessing and probably overdoing it with the meditations and subliminals. I have been alternating PW, Connect With Your Mate, BW every night for a week and in between done some whispering meditations daily, sending him messages throughout the day and a manifest a call meditation once or twice. I think that I felt like I was getting so close to my end result that I tried to speed it up. Patience is my weakness.

Anyone have any good tips to legitimately detach or stop obsessing? I am trying to stay busy but I feel like I am a fraud. I will try the original CTC meditation tonight and see if that helps. I am also adding in more self-love meditations.

**Posted by Angelfire** 7/30/2018 8:01 pm

I would defintely increase the self-love meditations. I have an app on my phone called "My affirmations" that you can customize to give you affirmation notifications at set intervals during the day. They have a variety of topics...wealth, love, etc. I also am going through a similar situation. Just repeating the affirmations as they pop up during my day has helped me tremendously. I am shifting the focus from him to myself. Just know that your messages are being received even if you aren't getting a response yet. It is possible that he is feeling overwhelmed with everything you're sending him. Sometimes we create alot of resistance in worrying about or trying to hurry along the results. I have seen others post about how wonderful Agnes Vivarelli's videos are. I have only seen a few of them myself.

**Posted by BelleFleur** 7/30/2018 8:18 pm

Angelfire wrote:
I would defintely increase the self-love meditations. I have an app on my phone called "My affirmations" that you can customize to give you affirmation notifications at set intervals during the day. They have a variety of topics...wealth, love, etc. I also am going through a similar situation. Just repeating the affirmations as they pop up during my day has helped me tremendously. I am shifting the focus from him to myself. Just know that your messages are being received even if you aren't getting a response yet. It is possible that he is feeling overwhelmed with everything you're sending him. Sometimes we create alot of resistance in worrying about or trying to hurry along the results. I have seen others post about how wonderful Agnes Vivarelli's videos are. I have only seen a few of them myself.

I echo everything that you said! Self love self love self love. That is the path. Then send love without expecting anything in return and just trust the outcome. I also love Agnes' videos and take notes on them.

**Posted by January** 8/01/2018 6:31 pm

Thank you guys. He did call me briefly yesterday. I have been doing more self-love meditations from Agnes and trying to redirect my negative thoughts with "I am loved" as she recommends the past few days. Last night I used the Connect with your POI while you sleep and Lanie's old Stop Obsessing meditations. ( I am not sure what the title is or if it is still available). Today I still felt a little low as I had been hoping he would call me last night so we could chat more. This morning I only did the 2 Cups method and that felt good. I think that I was doing so much that it was draining me. So I am going to start following what Agnes said, where you do a 2 to 1 (self-love to attracting your special person).

**Posted by collie** 8/11/2018 3:09 am

Hi

I got the bundle and i did the repelling meditation. However, i can't rub my hands for more than a few mins..they get really sore before even calling out the sp's name. Broke my hand a while ago so maybe coz of that ☹.
Do others experience pain also?

Another question do you do all the meditations the same day?

Thanks

**Posted by manifesting145** 11/29/2018 2:06 am

Thank you for this Lanie!

**Posted by Mcleanie77** 4/15/2019 2:30 pm

I bought this bundle I love it!! 😍👍

**Posted by My mind** 6/13/2019 1:28 pm

I have a question i am reguraly doing PW technique.. few days ago i saw him in my dream like I'm his wife...its mean this technique is working?

**Posted by Sweetsong** 6/14/2019 4:30 pm

My mind wrote:
I have a question i am reguraly doing PW technique.. few days ago i saw him in my dream like I'm his wife...its mean this technique is working?

Hi!
I have been doing PW for the last 2-3 days. I was dreaming about him before. First time he was massaging me, and he didn't say it but in my mind I heard him telling me I have had a big butt, the other time it was the same thing but in my mind I heard that I had bad breath (I think these my own insecurities, because the second time I fall asleep with the tv on and didn't get ready for the bed (pajamas, brush teeth, take make up off etc. so it was subconscious reminder to brush teeth).

I dreamed about him this morning. After I did an early meditation I fell asleep. In that dream i asked him how is this silence working with him (we are 2 months in no contact). I don't remember what he said, probably mumbled something. I wish it was a real thing, and I think I am going to call him in a couple of days. I don't care if we will ever get back, I miss being a friend with him and talk about everything every day. I broke up in a very weird, no leaving a chance for explanation way.

How are you doing in general?